Kutali ndi maudindo a amuna ndi akazi

Ndakhala zaka zambiri osakhala binary kwa zaka zambiri, popanda zoletsa zachikhalidwe kapena zachikhalidwe zokhudzana ndi kugonana komanso chikhalidwe pakati pa amuna ndi akazi. mafotokozedwe a Terms.

Mosiyana ndi amuna wamba, ma estrogen receptors angaonongeke ndi testosterone atatha kutha, koma adakhalabe wolimba, zomwe zimapangitsa thupi lokha kutulutsa estrogen, limatsogolera kugawa kwamafuta achikazi ndi tsitsi lakumaso, ndikukhala ndi ma curve. Ndayesetsa kuwaphunzitsa kwa nthawi yayitali, koma tsopano ndimayimirira ndipo ndimanyadira zomwe ndili komanso momwe ndimawonekera. 

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Mosiyana ndi ma transsexourse, sindimatsata mawu ndi manja a anyamata kapena atsikana. Sindimavala tsitsi, sindiyenera kuchita chilichonse, ndipo ndimangodziveka ndekha zomwe zikugwirizana ndi thupi langa, kaya ndi azimayi kapena gawo la amuna. Maonekedwe a thupi amatchula zovala, osati jenda lobadwa. M'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, sindinawoneke wopusa kapena wosankhidwa. Pokhapokha kampeni yanga ya Genderqueer ya sabata iliyonse, kudzipereka kwanga ku kufanana, Omenyedwa ndi MeToo, kugonana kwachitatu, komanso kuwonekera kwazowonjezereka komwe kwakhala matemberero ndi ziwopsezo mdziko la digito, mowopsa ngakhale ndi gulu la transgender. Pakadali pano, ndalandilanso zakuphedwa zazikulu.  

Kale ndili mwana ndimacheza bwino ndi atsikana kuposa anyamata. Mwambo, kakulidwe komanso zanyengo za anyamata atatha msinkhu sizinali zanga. M'malo mwa mpira ndi masewera, ndinali wokonda kwambiri zaluso, komanso mafashoni ndi zodzikongoletsera. 

Mwamuna ayenera kukhala wopanda nkhawa, wolimba komanso wololera. Koma mzimayi amaloledwa kukhala wopanga, wamalingaliro komanso wamisala komanso kudzifotokozera tsiku lililonse molingana ndi zovala komanso zodzola. Chilichonse chosangalatsa chimawoneka kuti chimasungidwa pakati pa akazi. Ndizijambula nkhope yanga momwe ndimafunira, kuvala chilichonse chomwe ndikufuna, kupendekera miyendo yanga ndi mikono yanga komanso ndimakonda kupaka misomali yanga. Ndizosangalatsa chabe ndipo sindinamvetsetse chifukwa chake izi zikuyenera kukhala ufulu wapadera kwa akazi. Sichinenanso chovala kapena zovala, koma ufulu weniweni wozichita, ngati mukufuna.

Ndikakumbukira zakale, sizinakhalepo choncho pomwe pinki ndi zofiyira zinali zachimuna zachimuna ndipo kugonana amuna kumakhala kupanga kapena kuvala zovala ndi nsapato zokongola kwambiri. Pokhapokha anali atakana kukwatirana nthawi imeneyo. Icho chinali chizindikiro cha mphamvu ndi nyonga.

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Palibe chochititsa manyazi kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zinthu ngati izi. Zikadakhala kuti zinali choncho, pafupifupi 52% ya anthu padziko lapansi akanachita manyazi tsiku lonse, kutuluka. Kulimbana kwa kumasulidwa kamodzi kudayamba ndikuvala thalauza. Amayi amakhala omasuka kwambiri pankhani yokhala bisexeness (pomwe amuna owoneka bwino amagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati amiseche) ndipo nthawi zambiri amawonekera, mwach. mwaukadaulo, wamwamuna pazomwe anthu amavomereza ndikuti ndizovuta. Koma, tsoka, bambo amawonetsa mawonekedwe achikazi, ndiye kuti dziko limayamba. Ndipo izi zimaphunzitsidwa kale ngati mwana wakhanda woyang'anira.

Pakadakhala kufanana kwenikweni, abambo omwe amawonetsa mbali yawo yachikazi sakanasankhidwa ndikuwopsezedwa. Ndi azimayi omwe, pomwe amafunafuna ufulu wambiri, safuna kusiya mwayi wawo tsiku ndi tsiku. Kufanana ndikopanda kusiyana kwa kulipira kwa jenda, kumayamba ndi zinthu zoyambira pamoyo watsiku ndi tsiku monga zovala zaulere. 

Ngakhale anthu oyamba odziwika mpaka 5 genders. Anali amKhristu achikristu omwe adalimbikitsa maudindo padziko lonse lapansi. Palibe chomwe chimakhala chachimuna kapena chachikazi chokha. Mwa munthu aliyense pali magawo amodzi ndi ena. Amayi amakhalanso momasuka. Amuna, komabe, musayerekeze, koma pali mawu okweza a 350.000 okhudzana kwambiri ndi maofesi aku Internet achijeremani ndipo kafukufuku waposachedwa wa Reddit wokhala ndi ndemanga zopitilira 10.000 adatsimikizira kuchuluka komwe kukufuna kapena kumakhala chinsinsi. Ine ndimayimirira pafupi nazo, chifukwa ukazi sikuyenera kukhala kalikonse, chifukwa chomwe munthu angachite manyazi.

Tikukhala m'dziko lomwe ubongo umakhala pakati pa chilichonse chomwe chimafotokozera munthu. Koma ndi chiwerewere chenicheni, chomwe chimasiyanasiyana kuchokera kwa wobadwa, chomwe sichimamupatsa ulemu. Kwa ine, jenda ndi chizindikiro cha malingaliro ndi thupi. Jenda si binary, ndiwowoneka bwino, monga kafukufuku waposachedwa wasayansi akuwonetsera. Ngakhale DNA kapena ma chromosomes omwe adapangidwadi, ndiye chifukwa chiyani ambiri amakana kuti pali zambiri pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi?

Ndi maubwenzi a anthu wamba, magawo omwe amakakamizidwa, kuganiza kwa kabati ndi banja kapena zitsanzo zomwe zimapangitsa odwala kudwala.

Photo / Video: Alexander Hölzl.