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"Unhealthy lifestyle, but also stress and lack of sleep contribute to the fact that the prospect of sex rather stimulates the dead reflex than anything else."
Good advice is expensive, and where to look for it? Of course on the internet. Dr. Google will know further. And indeed, a search query on libido loss is consistently fruitful. It is learned that a decrease in craving due to age due to reduced hormone production, is considered quite normal. But also that behind reduced desire often organic diseases, mental disorders, as well as side effects of various medications can be. Of course, as a first step, a medical or psychological clarification of the causes is recommended. However, many affected people would rather undergo a thorough root canal treatment than discuss the topic of sexual aversion with a doctor. The pharmacy is rarely trusted. "Men almost never turn to me with this problem. But very well they make inquiries, whether it was not something, which would make the woman again a little more pleasure, "says a surveyed pharmacist.
In terms of potency
Dietary supplements and herbal medicines as little helper's are the secret top sellers on the internet. Among the various active ingredients, the amino acid L-arginine, which has a vasodilator effect, is particularly common, and thus promises to be more helpful in male impotence disorders. This is indeed another "construction site", namely "wanting but not knowing". But quite comprehensible, problems of rectification often lead to the man literally losing the pleasure. Even in times of small blue pills, ie Viagra and Co, herbal alternatives still enjoy high demand. This is probably not only due to the prevailing trend to use as natural a means as possible, but above all because of the fact that sildenafil and similar active substances must not be taken by people with cardiovascular or kidney disease.
Can it be a bit more?
If the awakening of pleasure as an effect is not enough, you will find more or less exotic plants. The maca root, for example, when regularly taken to give both women and men new lumbar power, but also promote muscle growth, lower cholesterol, and also have a positive effect on mental health. Even in the Inca empire nobles and warriors refreshed their vitality with it.
The fenugreek, another child prodigy of nature, also brings the libido to fruition. He does not want to believe in what he still can do: he makes the head hair sprout again, helps with excessive sweating, has an appetite-stimulating effect and promotes milk production in nursing women. Be warned of euphoric hamster purchases, however. Efficacy and toxicity studies are on a manageable scale, and therefore a limited application security. Knowing this, it is advisable to select sources of supply wisely. So choose established manufacturers of phytopharmaceutical remedies, which often combine the good of several plants in combination preparations. These include blood circulation promotion, strengthening or vitalization as well as a regulating effect on a sexual appetite unhealthy hormone balance.
Lustkiller everyday
Whether and how these dietary measures work depends, of course, on the underlying causes. Unhealthy lifestyle (keyword nourishment poisons) but also stress and lack of sleep contribute to the fact that the prospect of sex rather stimulates the dead reflex than anything else. It is therefore hardly surprising that the sexual "appetite reduction" as it is called in the jargon, is on the rise. However, whether lack of desire possesses a disease value depends primarily on the individual suffering of those affected.
Catholic clergymen may not complain as much as people who have never met fulfilling sexual contacts throughout their lives. However, if in a relationship only cuddling is required instead of hot sex, then the sexually vital partner with this program change may have a problem in the long term. Perhaps even the continuity of the relationship under these conditions is called into question. At the latest, then creates a suffering.
Fancy sex? Red ma over it
Not so rare but leaves the motivation of both partners to be desired. Couples have the property to perfect the sexual act with increasing duration. The handles sit, you know what leads to success, and the intercourse becomes routine. No risk, no fun. Since the prospect of an 08 / 15 number, which was already rehearsed ten years ago, can not keep up with the latest season of the current favorite series. So couple is wondering, how is life coming back into the whole thing?
Apart from the above means, there is one particularly promising: communication. A recent study at the Meduni Wien came to this amazing result. It was investigated to what extent the administration of oxytocin had a positive effect on the sexual experience of the man. To the surprise of the female scientists, both the placebo control group and the ocytocin test group showed the same positive values. This could only be explained by the fact that both partners had to complete (!) Questionnaires on the subject of sex. It's that easy. Talking and listening will whet your appetite.
"Telefonsex-Afficionados" already know that. After the first highly sensitive beginnings, talking about wishes and fantasies creates trust and intimacy, and also increases the long-term desire. Maybe a nice opportunity to use his free minutes really useful.
The reluctance
Sexual malady (Male Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder) is characterized by the lack or complete absence (to 75-100 percent) of sexual fantasies or the desire to become sexually active. A temporary occurrence can be considered quite normal, crucial for one
Diagnosis is both the durability (longer than six months) and the suffering. Since only a fraction of those affected are seeking medical help, only estimates are available. Approximately 50 percent of women and 10-20 percent of men are affected in the course of their lives.
"Sexual Health Australia" extends the picture of the disorder with the term "Miss Matched Libido". The focus is not the problem of the individual, but that of the couple. This is an incompatibility of the sexual desire of two partners in a relationship understood. This does not automatically mean that a "hypoactive sexual desire disorder" is present, even if this is possible. By focusing on the sexual appetite mismatch, the problem shifts from the individual to the couple, suggesting a common, often mixed therapy treatment.
Delimiting this is the sexual orientation of asexuality. Asexual people experience the lack of desire for sexual activity and also the lack of sexual attraction to people of any sex, as belonging to their own.
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