Mira Kolenc
Who does not know him, this desire for change, but with a new hair color it is not done. In Hollywood you order a new face in this case - so usually you just drink "a lot of water" and play the game "Who I was once" with its surroundings.
"It's like this: proclaiming change is not difficult, but implementing change very much. And all because the environment does not feel like the individual who wants to change. "
Whether it brings the desired satisfaction, I do not know, I would have to quickly ask Uma once. After all, you are held for a short time for another person, a need that plagues you not only as a Hollywood size. Or have you ever tried a fresh start in Vienna? You can only decide if you never want to leave the apartment or change yourself beyond recognition. It's the same: proclaiming change is not difficult, but implementing change very much. And all of this only because the environment does not feel like the change-mad individual. Why, it was all good as it was. In a city where you have been fed by the imperial banquets at state receptions until 1998, you can not expect too much in terms of "enthusiasm for change" anyway.
"The good news is that we will be able to surprise ourselves more often in the course of life, because we are not so stuck. The less good thing is that one can find the new one less often in the old one. And the old will be less enthusiastic about the "surprising" change of heart. "
Justifiably, you could now argue that you can never escape yourself anyway, even with a new face. So basically it's not about changing the environment or the facade, but about the innermost interior. Exactly, it's about the "right attitude". At least, that's why life counselors and other sources that do not stingy with "good advice" make us unequivocally clear.
If we just want to, we can make every cup of bad coffee the ultimate pleasure and see blooming landscapes in rocky deserts. Until then, during a blizzard, freeze your feet because you have imagined the beach and the sea and realize too late that there is no sand between your bare toes. In the end, one knows, imagination alone is not enough and even the "most correct attitude" can lead to postural damage.
Since I recently embraced another man with baby carriages, with fresh content, who for the longest time of his life categorically refused to own children until this fateful change of relationship, yes, at least since then, I know, man is full of unexpected surprises , Especially when something changes in his life.
The question still remains to be clarified, if first the mind changes and then the environment or only the changed circumstances the mind, but who really cares?
One thing is for sure, that we can not resist each other before the change. Or to say it in words from my pathos moth box: Life is change. The good news is that we will be able to surprise ourselves more often in the course of life, because we are not so stuck. The less good one is perhaps that you will find the new one less often in the old. And the old will be less enthusiastic about the "surprising" change of heart and like the disappointment about it as a visible neon sign carries around. But what the hell, the Thurman now has to go through with their new "effortless Parisian chic" too. Sometimes change is everything.
Photo / Video: Oskar Schmidt.
