Elizabeth Oberzaucher
Ukuba sizixelise kwimizekelo elungileyo ngumgangatho wobuntu. Kwibhayoloji, le nto ibizwa ngokuba kukufunda kwintlalo. Xa kuthelekiswa nezinye iindlela zokufunda apho umntu eyedwa, efunda khona ezentlalo, okanye efunda nokulinganisa, uzisa izibonelelo ezinkulu: akufuneki ukuba uzame yonke into ngokwakho, akufuneki ukuba uyile ngokwakho, kwaye akufuneki wenze impazamo ngokwakho. Ke ukufunda kwezentlalo yeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokufumana izakhono kunye neendlela zokwenza izigqibo. Asinguye wonke umntu ongumntu oza njengomzekelo kuluhlu olufutshane. Ngubani esimkhethayo njengomzekelo wokuxhomekeka, phakathi kwezinye izinto, kwimeko yethu yobomi. Kwinqanaba labantwana abancinci, abazali zezona mpembelelo zinamandla. Izenzo zabo basondeleyo kuthi ekuhlaleni zakha imilo yethu yokuziphatha kwasekuqaleni. Umzekelo, abazali abangakuthandiyo ukutya imifuno ngokwabo baya kuba nempumelelo encinci ekufumaneni abantwana babo ekutyeni okunempilo.
Kodwa impembelelo yabazali kwinzala yabo iyancipha ngobudala: Imeko yentlalo eguqukayo iya ngokuya ngakumbi kwicala labalingane. Ukuba, ngexesha lokufikisa, ngokuyinto yokuba umiselwe ngaphakathi kwisangqa sendawo ohamba kuyo, abanye abantu baya kuba yingqwalasela yethu ekubeni mdala.
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Iwebhusayithi yaseBritane iYouGov.co.uk yenze uphando ngabantu abamalunga nama-2015 kumazwe angama-25.000 ngo-23, eyayijonga ezona ndawo zidumileyo nabantu abayimizekelo kwilizwe ngalinye. Eyona ndawo ibekwe kwiindawo ngeendawo ngamanqaku: UAngelina Jolie (10,6), uBill Gates (9,2), uMalala Yousafzai (7,1), uHillary Clinton noBarack Obama (6,4), uKumkanikazi uElizabeth II (6,0) , Xi Jinping (5,3), Michelle Obama no Narendra Modi (4,8), Celine Dion (4,6), Ophra Winfrey (4,3), uPope Francis (4,1), Julia Roberts kunye Dalai Lama ( 4,0).
Uba ngumzekelo njani?
Namhlanje, abantu abayimodeli ikakhulu ngabantu abasesidlangalaleni. Ukufikelela kuluntu kudala isiseko esibalulekileyo sokusebenza kakuhle njengomzekelo ongumzekelo. Akwanelanga ukwenza izinto ezinkulu, okungenani zibalulekile njengokwazisa abanye ngazo. Ke ngoko, ukubonakaliswa kwamajelo eendaba kwabantu kudlala indima ekhethekileyo ekudaleni imizekelo yeemodeli. Abo bantu kugxilwe kubo kugadiwe bayamamela, nokuba banganakho na okanye banganakho na ukunika uluvo olufanelekileyo kumxholo lowo ukuwo. U-Leonardo DiCaprio usanda waba ligorha kwi-Facebook nakwi-Twitter nakweminye imithombo yeendaba kuba waye wacela isimilo esizinzileyo kwintetho yokubulela. Akunjalo ngenxa yeziqu zakhe, okanye ngenxa yezenzo zakhe ezizodwa, kodwa ngenxa yokuthandwa kwakhe, waba ngumzekelo wokuzinza.
Ewe kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha ukubonakala okusebenzayo kubonakala kukuphela kwento egqiba ukuba ngumlinganiso olungileyo. Le nto inxulumene nenye impembelelo yengqondo: sikhetha izinto esiziqhelileyo kwaye sizifumane zintle ngakumbi. Ke okukhona sivezwa kukhuselo oluthile, kokukhona siyithanda.
Ke, ubukho beendaba bubakhokelela ekubeni abantu bathathelwe ingqalelo njengo-vuyo neenkokeli zoluvo, nangaphaya kwemida yobuchule babo. Le nto ibangelwa yimbali yethu yokuzivelela kwezinto. Ngelixa ukufunda kwezentlalo kusisicwangciso esineendleko zokufunda izinto ezintsha, akufuneki kubhalwe konke konke. Kwibandla lezilwanyana, ukufunda ngokwasentlalweni kuqhele ukulinganiselwa ekulinganiseni indlela yokuziphatha kwabantu abaziwayo. Ubumbano lwangaphandle aluthembeki kangako njengemodeli eziyimodeli kwaye ke zihlala zixeliswa kakhulu. Ubukho beendaba bubangela ubudlelwane be-pseudo-noluntu nosaziwayo. Iingcali zokwenyani, ezinelizwi lazo kuphela xa zinento yokwenza negalelo ngokomxholo, ziyasilela ukufikelela. Ke ngoko, ngokothusayo, thina njengabantu esingabaziyo sibabona njengabathembekanga kangako, nangona ubuchule babo kwezobuchwephesha buya kuvumela okuchaseneyo.
Kwintengiso, le nto iyasetyenziswa: Iinkwenkwezi zikhuthaza iimveliso zazo zonke iintlobo.Ngoku akunakulindeleka ukuba abagqibayo babenobuchule obukhethekileyo kumxholo wetshokholethi, okanye ukuba umlingisi waseMelika uyazi ngakumbi malunga nekhofi kunomntu wase-Austrian oqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, iinkampani zifikelela nzulu kwiingxowa zabo ukudibanisa ubuso oqhelekileyo kunye nemveliso yabo. Nokuba intengiso iyakha kwimbono yeengcali, ayiyenzi ngendlela obungayilindela ngayo, inyhani malunga nobungcali: Endaweni yokuvumela iingcali ezininzi ukuba zithethe, umntu usekwe njengengcali yobuso. Esi sicwangciso sifuna ixesha elingaphezulu-ukuqhelana nemodeli engekakhiwa-kodwa kungaphumelela ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Iinzululwazi aziboneleli ngeengxelo ezinxulumene ne100. Kodwa akukho nto yimbi enomdla eluntwini njengengxoxo yomzekelo ongumzekelo.
Iimodeli ziingcali zonxibelelwano
Okwangoku, abantu abayimodeli ngaba bantu banokuhambisa imiyalezo ngempumelelo. Kubaluleke ngakumbi ukufumana ulwimi oluqondakalayo. Kwakhona, abantu bahlala bebalasele eluntwini. Ulwazi ngamanye amaxesha olungenantsingiselo iinkwenkwezi ezinayo ngezihloko ezinxibelelanayo zenza kube lula ukusonga imiyalezo ezifuna ukuyidlulisela kumagama alula. Izazinzulu ikakhulu zihlala zinengxaki echaseneyo: ukuba nolwazi oluvakalayo olunzulu kuhlala kungenza ukuba zinciphise iingxelo kwimiyalezo yokuphembelela ngokulula. Ukukhutshwa kwengxelo-ngxelo eyintloko evela kwincwadi yesayensi kubonisa ukuba akukho nto iphambili kuthi.Izesayensi, ezijongana nezinto ezinokwenzeka kunye nokuhanjiswa, aziboneleli ngengxelo yepesenti ezilikhulu. Kodwa akukho nto yimbi enomdla eluntwini njengengxoxo yomzekelo ongumzekelo.
Iimodeli ezifanelekileyo
Abantu abaziimodeli ezifanelekileyo bangadibanisa iimpawu ezahlukeneyo:
a) Unokuxhomekeka kumxholo oqinisekisiweyo okunika ubume bengcali.
b) Banokubonakala kwemithombo yeendaba ukunika umyalezo wabo ubanzi ngempembelelo.
c) Bayakwazi ukunxibelelana imiyalezo ukuze baqondwe luluntu.
Ukusukela nje ubisi olubeka amaqanda lubisi oluneempawu ezahlukileyo anqabile, umbuzo uphakama, ukuba ngaba sinokulindela ngenene izazinzulu neengcali, ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwimodeli yethu. Kungaluncedo ngakumbi ekusasazeni imisebenzi ngendlela yokuba abantu abanonxibelelwano oluchanekileyo baziswe kakuhle ziingcali kangangokuba bakwazi ukwenza indima yabo ngokusemandleni. Ngokukodwa kunxibelelwano lwezesayensi, ukuhanjiswa kweendima phakathi kososayensi kunye neentatheli zesayensi ziyavela: Izazinzulu zigxile ekuveliseni ulwazi olutsha kunye nokwazisa kuluntu lwezenzululwazi. Ibhulorho phakathi kophando kunye noluntu iyabetha abanye: Ababhali bezesayensi abanokuqonda okwaneleyo kokuqonda ulwazi oluvela kwihlabathi lezenzululwazi baliguqulela kulwimi oluqondakalayo ngokubanzi. Ukuba umntu uyaphumelela ekufumaneni ukuthembela kwabadali bolwazi kunye nabathengi bolwazi, elona nyathelo libaluleke kakhulu ekusasazeni imiyalezo engqongqo yenziwa.
Ukungakholelwa kwindalo
Oomatshini abasetyenziselwa ukukhetha iimodeli kunye nokuvavanya ukuthembakala kwabanye bavele ngokuqhubeka kwexesha lokuvela kwendalo phantsi kweemeko ezahluke kakhulu kwimeko yangoku. Izinyanya zethu zingonyusa impumelelo kwimfundo yezentlalo ngokufunda kubantu abaqhelileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ubuchwephesha bale mihla budala ukuqhelana ne-pseudo nabantu esingabaziyo. Abo bazindwendwe eziqhelekileyo kwigumbi lethu lokuhlala baba ngamalungu eqela lethu. Yiyo loo nto sibakholelwa kwaye sibakhethe njengabayimizekelo. Oku kuthwala umngcipheko wokuthemba umntu ongalunganga, kuba sikholwa ukuba siyabazi. Logama sisazi ukuba le mvakalelo yesisu sokuthenjwa ayisosiseko sinokuthenjwa, sinokuyixhathisa.
Iindidi zeNdima: Ukuwa kweZuckerberg
UMark Zuckerberg (facebook) ungene kwizihloko ngaphambili kulo nyaka ngokunikela ngezinto zakhe ezininzi. Wakhawuleziswa ngokukhawuleza njengegorha, kodwa kungekudala wavusa amathandabuzo. Umzamo wokuphucula umfanekiso wakhe ngale ndlela awuphumelelanga. Ngaphambili, bekukho ukungoneliseki kukuba iZuckerberg ayikhange ihlawule irhafu nangona kuthengiswa iibhiliyoni. Ngelixa ukusabela kwangoko kwimidiya yezoluntu ibingumdla wokuchwayita, indlela abasabela ngayo kwimithombo yeendaba yasendulo yahlala yoyisiwe. Kwaye kufanelekile, njengoko kwenzekile, iminikelo yeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokugcina iirhafu, ngakumbi e-US. Ngapha koko, imali ayikaze ilawule ubukhosi bukaZuckerberg: isiseko siphantsi kwemiyalelo ye-bilionea, kwaye inokwenzeka ukuba isebenze ngokonqwenela iinjongo zakhe.
Eli tyala liqaqambisa into eyenzeka ngokuxakileyo: abo bathobela imithetho kwaye bexhasa intsebenziselwano yoluntu ngokuziphatha kwabo, umzekelo ngokuhlawula igalelo labo lokhuseleko kunye nerhafu, abaqondwa kwaphela. Kwelinye icala, abo bavunyelwe ukuba benze into ngokwasentlalweni ngokuphula umthetho babe ngamagorha. Sithanda ukungajongeli phantsi izinto ezihambelana nesiqhelo ngelixa sigqithisa izinto ezinqabileyo. Ngenxa yoko, siye siqaphele kuphela xa kwenzeka into engaqhelekanga. Kungenxa yoko le nto indlela yokuziphatha ngokungahambelaniyo kungafanelekanga ukuba ikhankanywe. Kuphela kungokuphakamisa ulwazi malunga nolu gwenxa esinokukuthintela kule meko.
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