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Izehlakalo ezingaphelele, ezingaqondakali ngokuphelele noma ezingalawuleki ngobuningi bazo, zivame ukufika ekulinganiseni ngezibalo. Lokhu kubonakala kuqinisekisa abaseNtshona. Yize kukudala ukuthi kube namahemuhemu wokuthi izibalo zikhombisa "okungokoqobo" kuphela okulinganiselwe. Kungenzeka ukuthi uyazi isicaphuni uWinston Churchill asifaka emlonyeni wakhe futhi esifingqa inkinga.
Enye yalezi zinto ubulili. Kwakuvele kunjalo, lapho ubulili benza into eyodwa kuphela, okuyiyo yokuzala kabusha kumenyezelwa. Futhi ngaba yinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe emcabangweni womphakathi kwakamuva ngocwaningo lukaWilliam Masters noVirginia Johnson. Akunakusho ukuthi yonke into isengathengiswa ngezinhlamvu ezintathu kuze kube namuhla, sazi ukuthi ukuthathwa ngeke kwenzeke. Kunoma yikuphi, ngandlela thize umuntu ophoqelekile ukuba anikeze umbono kulokho okumenyezelwe njengesidingo esiyisisekelo, okungenani njengento eyenzekayo ukuze umuntu aphile.
"Noma ngabe yikuphi lokhu" ukusondelana kwangempela ", kungenzeka nje ukuthi kuyaphikisana ne-porn ekhanyiswe kahle futhi kukhombisa ukukhathala ngokububula okuningi."
Lokho bekungaba umsebenzi wokugcwalisa ngokwawo ngokwanele, ukube bekungekho ngisho naloluthando olungenakuqondakala. Uhamba ngendlela yakhe futhi othanda ukuvinjwa ebulilini. Noma i-ethereal kakhulu kunobulili obuqinile, iyakhombisa, ngokuhlukile ngokwenyama, ukumelana okukhulu. Futhi ngale saladi, umuntu ubelokhu eshaya iminyaka, ngoba bekungekho mithetho kahulumeni, izivumelwano zenhlalo noma ukubhidlizwa kwazo. Yini obekungeyona futhi engeke ihlulwe, kodwa noma ngabe yamukelwe ngokwenhlalo noma cha, akuzange kuguqule inkinga ekugcineni. Futhi, azikho izindlela ezibanzi ezisebenzayo ku-TV, njengezithunyelwe ngesikhathi esihle kakhulu se-hole hole "Yenza Uthando", esithembisa ukuthi "uthando lungafunda," futhi lokhu kukhombisa ngesisekelo semibhangqwana yangempela ekhombisa ngobufakazi bayo, ukuthi ukusondelana phakathi kwabathandi kubukeka kanjani ngoba i-inthanethi igcwele nje ucansi, kepha ayigcwele ukusondelana.
Noma yini le "ukusondelana kwangempela", lapha kungenzeka nje okuphambene ne-porn ekhanyiswe kahle futhi kukhombise inkanuko ende ende ngokububula okuningi. "Ukusondelana kwangempela" njengokuphikisana nobulili obujabulisayo obujabulisa ngokwengeziwe.
Yini eyenziwa ngabashadikazi abahlala isikhathi eside, abanezinketho ezijwayelekile "zocansi", "ezejwayelekile" ezijwayelekile kanye nezindlela ezijwayelekile "zokuphila kwansuku zonke manje, lapho uthando nenkanuko kungasahambelani? Ngoba ngandlela thile kusazoba nesifiso sobulili, kepha hhayi nje kulokhu esivele kwaziwa. Umbuzo uhlala ungaphendulwa. Izimpendulo zihlohlwe ngezintaba zezinombolo - izindinganiso ezingenakusiza: kusukela ekugqokeni ukudla okuluyisayo noma ukudla "kothando" yeka ukhilimu ophefumulayo kuye (ngokuhlanganiswa) ukuthengwa kwamathoyizi amadala futhi - kunalokho okusha kumathiphu - wokuhlungwa nge-prostate.
"Ngokusemthethweni, sonke siyalingana ocansini, sanelisekile, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, siyasebenza njalo."
UPaula Lambert, olwela ukuthuthukisa impilo yakhe yezocansi, unikeza amantombazane izeluleko ngefomethi engu "Paula kommt" ukuthi kufanele awanakekele kahle amadoda akhe, ngoba uma kungenjalo ayoba nosizi, ajabule futhi angasebenzi. Futhi ngenxa yalokho akudingeki nokuthi ulale nomunye, vele ubanikeze "blowjob" enobungane. Abesifazane, njengoba "kufakazelwe" ngokwezibalo, abanasifiso esengeziwe kumlingani wabo. Abesifazane abane kwabayishumi (iJalimane) bakhetha ukushaya indlwabu kunokuba bahlanganyele ocansini, kanti amaphesenti ama-63 (Germany) kuthiwa enza ucansi kanye njalo ezinyangeni eziyisithupha, kunokuba alale nansuku zonke. Akuzwakali empeleni kufana nokuthi ukuya ocansini ndawonye kubalulekile ebudlelwaneni obuzinzile. Yize, kunjalo, ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi yonke indawo okuhlukile kugcizelelwa futhi, empeleni, kwenziwa. Ngokusemthethweni, sonke siyalingana ngokobulili, sanelisekile futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, siyasebenza njalo.
Ukungcoliswa kwemigwaqo okwenziwa kabusha ku- "Paula Comes" kusikisela ukuthi ukusikwa kwento ejwayelekile yocansi kanye ngenyanga lapho umlilo omkhulu ucishiwe. Kuzwakala njengomsubathi, ngenxa yami i-golfer (mhlawumbe uthanda isithasiselo se-punch eyodwa), ongathanda ukuba ngumpetha. Kepha esikhundleni sokuzijwayeza ukwenza njalo, ukholelwa ukuthi kufanele awonge amandla akhe kulo mdlalo obalulekile. Ekugcineni unakho - ngaphandle kokuzijwayeza - kunjalo, amandla anele, noma ubuchwepheshe obalulekile bokuthola phambili.
Lapho usujwayele njengombhangqwana kokuya ejwayelekile okuvamile, isithiyo ukuya ocansini ngokujwayelekile futhi ukufeza ubulili ikakhulukazi siphakeme kakhulu. Ngabe umqeqeshi wami wokukhuluma uhlala kanjani ekhuluma kahle kangaka? Akukho "wheel-elilodwa" lesikhathi sonke, elilodwa alikaze liphele noma ekugcineni, iningi ibanga lifushane. Kepha ukuyigcina ifushane kudinga ukuzijayeza, ukuzijwayeza - futhi - ukuzivocavoca.
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