Mira Kolenc
Imagazini ye-ZEIT isandula ukupapasha uhlelo olukhethekileyo lwamadoda, ngakumbi "indoda yanamhlanje". Kwakungekho bafazi banqunu, kodwa okuninzi iileta ezincinci ze-33, yile nto ndiyibiza njalo, imiyalezo elungileyo kwilizwe lehlabathi lamadoda. Umzekelo, kufundwe ukuba ukuduma endodeni kunomtsalane, nokuba kutsala abafazi ngokwenene. Ewe, ewe. Kudala ndithetha nam iminyaka emininzi ukuba isiphelo sam somsakazo okanye iBarbara-Schöneberger-hip ayisiyonto ingathandisiyo, kodwa sisixhobo esiyimfihlo sokwenene emadodeni. Ngokucacileyo.
Inomdla kodwa yayinenye into eyenye, eyengoma yesixhosa "kumadoda okugqibela". Oku, ukuze ukwazi ukufunda, bonke abo bazalwe bejikeleze i1960. Isizukulwana esithile, kwelinye icala, sabufumana ubunzulu bokunxila koyise, ababephethwe sisiphithiphithi semfazwe, kwelinye, ababesele bethambile ngobutyebi nokukhululwa. Olu luvo lwaluncinci kubavelisi babo kunye neqabane labo lokuvelisa, ngelixa abalingani besetyhini abafanayo bengabafumananga bethambile ngokwaneleyo.
"Indoda yokugqibela", kwelinye icala, inokumanyanisa ngokulula 'uMarboro Man' onobugwenxa kunye 'nomlingani womphefumlo' ngendlela engavisisaniyo kwaye yiyo loo nto ke ngumxube olungileyo apho abafazi banokuthi bakhuphe isisele seqanda. "Mira Kolenc kumadoda.
Nangona kunjalo, esi siseko se-chauvinistic ngoku sibenza, ngeli xesha lembali, abalindi bokugqibela be-manness. Isenokungahlengahlengiswa kangako ngenxa yendima edlakadlaka yokungaqiniseki kwabafana, malunga nayo ayinakuzifihla kubo bonke ngoku banentshebe epheleleyo. "Indoda yokugqibela", kwelinye icala, inokudibanisa ngokulula "iMarboro Man eyintloko" kunye "neqabane elinomphefumlo" ngendlela engavisisaniyo kwaye ngokuchanekileyo ngumxube olinganayo apho abafazi banokuthi bakhuphe isisele yeqanda kwangoko.
"Ndiyathetha, ukuba ubusazi ukuba zikho iidinosaurs ezimbalwa, ungafuna ukuzibona kungekudala ngaphambi kokuba zibhubhe." Mira Komenc ngamadoda.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba emva kwale ntetho kuye kwafuneka ndibukele umnyhadala wendalo uhlala, ukuba kuphela ngenxa yesibophelelo esithile kubazukulwana abalekayo. Ndiyathetha, ukuba ubusazi ukuba zikho iidinosaurs ezimbalwa ezishiywe, ungafuna ukuzibona kungekudala ngaphambi kokuba zibhubhe.
Ngokuqinisekileyo esi sizukulwana "sizukulwana sokugqibela", apho igama elithi "isithandwa" lisenokonwabela ukuthandwa okuthile, ukuba bakwenza ngombandela, into ebekulindelwe ngumakhulu wam: Amanenekazi abambe ucango Idyasi yokuncedisa, mema isidlo sangokuhlwa, memela ukudanisa. Kwaye ngaphandle kwe-ironic aftertaste. Ndicinga ukuba bayithatha kancinci. Ndikuve uhleka? Akufanele. Njengomfazi omncinci wanamhlanje, andikuqwalaseli oku, nangona kuyilo lakudala lendlela yangaphandle, ukuba kukuziphatha kwendalo. Ukujongana noontanga uhlala udibene. Yintoni le "yendoda yokugqibela" nayo ekuthandayo ukukhalaza ngayo, emva koko malunga nokungafuni komfazi ongasalindiyo ukuba avule iminyango yakhe.
Ekupheleni kosuku, "umntu wokugqibela" ubonakala kum njengefosili yangaphambili. Kwaye andazi nokuba kunyanzelekile ukuba silile ukwehla kwakhe. Iidinosaurs azisweleki, kwaye nokuba amantombazana asandula ukuzalwa eneneni aphupha kamva kumanyano phakathi kwamanenekazi kunye neemuscleman, emi kwiphepha elahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Mhlawumbi baya kuba sisizukulwana esiya kuthi ekugqibeleni sithandane uhlobo-lomntu oluxakwe kukungazithembi kwakhe kwaye ngubani owaziyo amadoda e-chauvinist kuphela njengama-panini ahlanganayo. Iminyango ihlala ivulekile ngokuzenzekelayo namhlanje. Luncedo kakhulu, akunjalo?
Photo / Ividiyo: Oscar Schmidt.
