Gery Seidl
Xa ndicinga emva, inkumbulo yam yokuqala yobuntwana imalunga nokukhuseleka kwamagama, "Iqela leTrafiki yaBantwana yaseHelmi." Konke oko bekukhuseleka. I-smorgasbord yezinto eziza kujongwa xa uhamba ngebhayisikile. Xa uyiqonda kakuhle indlela eya esikolweni eyedwa okokuqala ngqa, sebenzisa isihlalo esitrongo kunye nokunye okuninzi. Umbono omangalisayo.
Kodwa njengazo zonke izinto, idosi yenza ubuthi. Kuba xa uqaphela indlela yokwenza into elungileyo, uhlala ujongene nento yokuba awukwazi ukuyenza "kulungile" kwaye kwenzeka into ethile. Ke omnye uwucazulula phi umgca phakathi "kokuba umntu kufuneka azi" kwaye "akukho mntu uya kucinga ngaloo nto"?
Amanyathelo okhuseleko asebenzisa isitayile saseMelika, apho isalathiso kwi-oven microwave ibiza ingqalelo "ukungomisi isilwanyana kuyo", sisigqoko esidala. Kodwa kubonakala kum ukuba imiyalelo yokhuseleko nayo iyanda apha. Kutheni kunjalo? Ngaba kungenxa yokuba umvelisi enyanzeliswa ukuba aphendule kuyo yonke indlela enokwenzeka nenokwenzeka yemveliso? Ngaba kungcono ukuba urhulumente asibekele ingqalelo okanye ngumntu okrelekrele nje kwaye imakethi ikuqaphele oku.
Yintoni ekufuneka ilindelwe kumvoti, umntu ocinga kunye nembewu yakhe? Ngaba ndinxiba isigcina-ntloko kwisithambiso ski okanye andithi? Liza kufika nini ixesha lokuba ndenze njalo? Ngaba kuphela isigcina-ntloko sinyanzelo okanye kufuneka ndinxibe isikhuseli sasemva. Iibhedi kunye namanqwanqwa endolo. Ipistol yovalo. Ewe akunjalo! Isigcina-ntloko siyakwenza. Owu kulungile? Siza kubona.
Imoto yangomso ixhotywe ngezixhobo zangoku. Iikhamera ezahlukeneyo zihlola indawo esijikeleze kwaye zisinike lonke ulwazi olunokwenzeka. Utshintsho lomgaqo ngaphandle kokudanyaza lunokwenziwa kuphela ngamandla, kuba imoto iyayilawula. Ukuqhuba indoda yangaphambili ukuya kwinqanaba elivunyelweyo akunakwenzeka kuba imoto ihamba yodwa. Ngokusekwe kwindlela yakho yokuqhuba, imoto iyakuqonda xa udiniwe kwaye ikucebisa ukuba uthathe ikhefu. Nazi nje ezimbalwa zeendlela ezindinika umbono "wokhuseleko." Ngaphandle kwento yokuba ndingahlengahlengisa iindawo ezahlukeneyo zokuhlala, imoto iyandazi ngokukhawuleza kwifowuni yam kunye nam einbrockt i-tinnitus enzima, ukuba andikhange ndibambeke kwangoko emva kokuqala.
Ewe kunjalo, oku kusebenza lonke ukhuseleko lwam, ngokokude ndikuqonde. Kwenzeka ntoni, nangona kunjalo, xa zonke iinkqubo zisiya ngokuzimeleyo. Kutshanje kwenzeke kwimpawu zemoto, ukuba ndivula imoto ngolawulo olukude kwaye injini iqale ngokuzenzekelayo. Ke kuyakuthini ukuba imoto yam igqibe ngesiquphe ukubopha ngamandla ayo onke kuba ikrokrela umqobo? Ayinakwenzeka? Owu kunjalo! Siza kubona.
Siza kuyiphatha njani xa imoto yethu, emva kokuqonda ukuba umqhubi udiniwe, umane esiqhubela ipaki yemoto kwaye asinike iyure. Kwaye yeha, ukuba ayiphumlanga ngexesha lekhefu. Ngeentsuku sibambekile kwindawo yokupaka. Ubuncinci ide imoto yethu igqibe kwakhona ukuba sivunyelwe ukuqhuba. "Ungayicima," utshilo umyili. Of course. Kodwa kude kube nini?
Ngaba ngumlingo osisondeza ngakumbi okanye ngaba ziziporho "esingasokuze sizikhuphe ngexesha elithile?
Ngaba ngumlingo osisondeza ngakumbi okanye ngaba ziziporho ukuba singasuki ngexesha elithile? Into yokuba abazali bethu bebelele emotweni ngeloxesha - kum kwi-hat rack kunye nomninawa wam kwiseyile ye-Opel Record yethu - yayiza kubiza iphepha-mvume likatata lokuqhuba ubomi bonke. Kwakunjalo emva ngelo xesha. Iintambo kunye nemitya zazingekho okanye zazingasetyenziswanga. Isiphatho esiqinileyo sasingaqinile, kodwa ibimper yayihlala iyinto ephucukileyo kwaye ingekho amandla. Itini yayinzima kangangokuba wawunokuyisebenzisa ukwakha imoto yesibini. Kunyaka we-Beetle i-1957 ikholelwe ukubhabha ngesantya se-80 km / h.
Yonke ikhephu izolo. Umntu uye wakhawuleza kwaye oko kufuna ukhuseleko olungakumbi. Nokuba ahamba phi na. Kodwa ngakumbi emoyeni. Namhlanje ndinokungena kwi-U200 engabinamakhonkco nge-1 kg yeziqhushumbisi kwaye nditsibise iSt. St. Ndingafanelana ndonwabile ngoku kwaye ndiyonwabele inkululeko yendlela engaphantsi okanye ndibuze intsingiselo yezithintelo xa uhamba emoyeni.
Into endingekayifumani okwangoku licebiso lokuvula ubuchopho bakho.
Luqala phi ukhuseleko kwaye luqala nini ukuba yinto yokuxhaphaza kunye nenzuzo emsulwa? Indawo yethu yokuhlala igcwele inqatshelwe kwaye inqatshelwe. Into endingekayifumani licebiso lokuba "uvule ubuchopho bakho".
Isekhona, kwaye inokwenza lukhulu, nangona sisebenzisa malunga neepesenti ezintlanu kuphela zomsebenzi. Ngaba ubomi babunokwenzeka kuluntu olusebenzayo ngaphandle kwemiyalelo yokhuseleko?
Into endiyinqwenelayo lukhuseleko namhlanje olunokuthi kuphela usapho olungenampilo lubanike umntwana wabo. Le yindlela abantwana abanokuthi balifumane ngayo ilizwe. Unqabiseko loluntu oluthathela ingqalelo kunye nokhuseleko lokufumana imali ngokunyaniseka ngelixa usukelana namaphupha akho. Kuyavunywa, mhlawumbi kuya kuvakala ngamehlo aluhlaza. Kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba andizukuthatha le naivety. Masikhathalelane.
Photo / Ividiyo: UGary Milano.
