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Kwiminyaka elishumi okanye ishumi elinanye eyadlulayo, xa i-Facebook yayisebuntwaneni kwaye ndathatha amanyathelo am okuqala kwi-Intanethi, ndakhawuleza ndabona ukuba ezi ndawo zonxibelelwano zivela njengamakhowa zinokusetyenziselwa okungaphezulu kakhulu kunenethiwekhi Abahlobo kunye nabantu obaqhelileyo. Ukusetyenziswa kwabo, nangona kunjalo, bekuhamba kunye nokubambelela ngaphakathi. Iimvakalelo zitshintshile phakathi kwe-euphoria kunye nokungathembani.
Ngelo xesha, ubuncinci eMunich, apho bendihlala khona ngelo xesha, inethiwekhi yendawo leyo yabizwa ngokuba yiLokalisten. Imbonakalo yayikukuba yonke iMunich eselula yayiphuphuma apho kwaye ngokwahlukileyo kwihlabathi le-analog, isithintelo sokuthetha nomntu sasingaphantsi. Imiyalezo yayihlala ishukuma kwibhokisi yeposi. Izinto ezixhaphakileyo, izihlobo, okanye iinjongo, yonke ngequbuliso wonke umntu unokufumana le nto ebeyifuna kwaye engafane aphume endlwini nethemba lekamva elizisa abantu abalungileyo.
Ewe kunjalo, akakho umsebenzisi owayengazi ukuba uthungelwano olunjalo lolona ncedo lokuqala. Amagqabantshintshi anomdla awuzange ubonakale ngokulula. Ukuvuselwa yincoko yiSympathiefaden, ekugqibeleni yintlanganiso yokwenyani.
Kwaye ezi zinto ziphantse zaphawuleka. Nganye yeenenekazi endikhe ndadibana nazo, azikaze zibhengeze ukuba wake wadibana nomntu obhinqileyo kwi-intanethi. Uninzi lweengxoxo lwalububungqina bokuba umsantsa phakathi kwedijithali kunye ne-analog world uthathwa ngokuba mkhulu kakhulu. Umlingane wayengabaphambukeli, wayekude kakhulu kunaye nawuphi na umntu wasemzini oqhelekileyo. Ukwahlula phakathi "okwenyani" kunye ne "spingi" yehlabathi kwakubukhali. Kwaye engaziwayo evela kwi-intanethi ngandlela-thile ayinxalenye yehlabathi le-analog eqhelekileyo kunye neyaziwayo.
Ngapha koko, nje ukuba le gopti yoyisiwe kwaye abantu ababini badibana, baba isibini, oku kwakubopha ikhonkco lentsomi elivela kude kwi-Intanethi. Ngaba kuvakala njani ukuba impendulo kumbuzo wokwazisa yayiyi "Internet" nje? Akunjalo kwaphela kwezothando. Kwaye ngaba i-intanethi yayingeyiyo ngokwenene i-nerds engakhange ifumane ithuba lokufumana iqabane kubomi bokwenene?
Namhlanje, xa ndihleli ngokuhlwa kwiqela elikhulu nabahlobo, wonke umntu uxela ngokwendalo kwi-Intanethi ukudlala ngothando. Kwaye notatomkhulu wakho akasothusi ngenxa yendlela zokuzazisa. Hayi kancinci ngoba kwakudala akukho nto inyanzela ukuba isesesibini kakhulu, kodwa onke amaqela yobudala ayavuya kwihlabathi lokufumana online. Ipesenti ye-30 yalo lonke ubudlelwane ifezekisiwe kwi-Intanethi.
"E-Berlin, ngamanye amaxesha ndinokuziva ngathi ukudlala ngefowuni kwindawo kawonke wonke kuye kwacimeka ngokupheleleyo kwaye yonke into iguqukele kwinethiwekhi."
E-Berlin, ngamanye amaxesha ndiba nemvakalelo yokuba ukudlala ngefowuni kwindawo kawonke wonke kuye kwacimeka ngokupheleleyo kwaye yonke into iguqukele kwinethiwekhi. Nokuba uhlala wedwa emgqomeni njengomfazi ngokuhlwa, oku akubonwa njengesimemo. Kodwa iBerlin mhlawumbi iziva ipholile kakhulu kwezi ngcinga zingaqhelekanga kunye neengubo ngendlela ecekeceke kangangokuba iwela nje phantsi kweraditha yam yecalc. Umbuzo osikhanyiso ndisasebenza kuwo.
Okokugqibela, ngokungeniswa kwe-Tinder ye-ukuthandana lokusebenza kwi-2012, inqanaba elitsha kwindalo (ye-intanethi) yokufikisa kufikelelwe. Isithembiso: Yazana ngokukhawuleza nangakumbi! Umgaqo: Ukukhetha ukhetho lokunyusa amandla. Isizathu esiphambili sokuba iTinder ibe yinto yehlabathi.
Kuba ngenxa yokuba umfanekiso uthatha isigqibo kumnxibelelanisi hayi igama elibhaliweyo, zonke izithintelo zolwimi zarhoxisiwe, abenzi bazo ke ngoko bafika kwimbonakalo yentloko. Wonke umntu omdala wesithathu akatshatanga, intengiso inkulu. Indlela yokuphila eguqukayo ikwafuna ukuba zonke iinketho zigcinwe zivulekile eluthandweni. Kudala samkela imigaqo-siseko yoqoqosho lweemarike kubomi babucala. Isiphelo sisiphumo sokugqibela.
Kodwa nabani na oye wazonwabisa kwi-intanethi ukuthandana ngexesha elithile ufumanisa ukuba kuzisa ulwaneliseko oluncinci. Kuqala kuyo yonke imvakalelo eyoyikisayo yokukwazi ukukhetha iqabane elifunayo kwikhathalogu enkulu, uninzi lwemihla engaphumelelanga kamva emva koko ukungathandeki kunye nokungabikho ngaphakathi.
"IiNkqubo zokuthandana zinokunyusa amandla ezenza sizive ngathi sigcinelwe okomzuzwana kubuncinci bazo, zisenza nasiphi na isiphelo kubudlelwane inketho yeqabane elingcono."
Izixhobo zokuthandana zii-boosters ezenza ukuba siziva sigciniwe okomzuzwana kubuncinci bazo, zenza nasiphi na isiphelo kubudlelwane inketho yeqabane elingcono.
Kutshanje, nangona kunjalo, kuye kwavela izicatshulwa ezininzi nangakumbi ngabasebenzisi bangaphambili beTinder, abavuma ukuphuma kwabo. Ukuqomisana ngumkhwa ombi nje, ulungile, ukubhabha imizuzu embalwa yokulinda, ke i-tenor. Umntu uhamba ngokupheleleyo kubuninzi obungenathemba kwaye aphulukane nobuthathaka bakhe.
Eyona nto iphambili ekufuneka uyicinge: iingxaki zokufumana kunye nokugcina ubudlelwane buye bafana. Ekugqibeleni, iflanethi ye-Intanethi kusafuneka izibonakalise ngokwenyani. Eyona nto siyifunayo yokufunda kukujongana namathuba amatsha. Kuba kufuneka sibalawule, hayi bona.
Photo / Ividiyo: Oscar Schmidt.
