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Ukuvula ngokungathethiyo ayisiyonto ifunyanwa ngabantu ngokukhethekileyo. Ngaba angathanda ukuva kwenye into ayifunayo? Ngokuchaseneyo kungcono ukufanisa umfanekiso owenze yena. Nantoni na enokuyitshabalalisa ayimnandi.
Imfuno yokuthe ngqo ngaphandle komnyango wangasemva ke iyisiqingatha sentliziyo, nangona kwangaxeshanye umntu esoyika iimfihlo. Yiyo loo nto esinye okanye esinye isibini sigxininisa ukuba ngenene baya kuxoxa ngayo yonke into omnye komnye. Eyona nto indenza ndingcangcazele kancinci. Kuya kufuneka ukuba bangacingeli kwaphela okanye bazenze bonwabe kwinyaniso yabo. Ayisiyiyo yokuba umntu ngokubanzi ebeka kakubi ukuvumelana okuninzi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba abantu abanakuphila ngaphandle kweemfihlo.
Kutshanje ndiye ndathetha nomntwana oneminyaka elishumi elinasithoba. Wayefuna ukundibonisa umahluko phakathi kwam naye ngomzekelo olula. Ewe kunjalo, yena nabahlobo bakhe babeza kwazana. Ewe, uyaphuma ngalo lonke ithuba. Nokuba ukulala ubuze ndawonye kwiibhedi akukho nto ingaqhelekanga, kunjalo, isondo alunandaba. Isizukulwana sam sasiza kuyifumana loo nto ingaqhelekanga, kodwa ingeyiyo eyakhe.
Kuyinyani, ukungabelani ngesondo ngaphandle kobuthongo ebhedini kubangela umzuzwana wokukhathazeka, kunye nesidingo sokwamkela izihlobo kunye namantombazana athandekayo ngaphandle kwendlu yam, kusalele.
Kuyinyani, ukungabinazimbumbulu ngokwesondo kulele ebhedini kubangela umzuzwana wokukhathazeka - onokuthi uqinisekiswe apha Ariadne von Schirachs thesis yoluntu lwanamhlanje ekucingelwa ukuba lolweyiphi na tabulose ebizwa ngokuba "ingaphezulu kwaye iphantsi" - kunye nemfuno yamantombazana kwaye ukuba nabahlobo abahamba ze ngaphandle kwendlu yam kuthintelwe.
Ndithuke ngokungakhathali, kodwa njengoko usiya ukhula uya kuba kwiimfihlo. Nakwiingubo nabahlobo. NakwiiMihla. Amadoda adiliza ibhulukhwe yakhe ngenzondelelo emva kweyure yokuthetha awazenzi umdla. Amava am. Jonga, iifomati zokuthandana ezithandekayo ze-RTL "uAdam Ufuna uEva" nayo isilele kakubi. Ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ulwazi oluninzi alufuni nokuba nababukeli be-RTL kunye nababukeli kwaye bakhululekile kubuhlungu kule nto.
Ndicinga ukuba ingomba weminyaka yobudala kunowokuzala. Ngelixa abafazi abancinci abakwiminyaka yabo yamashumi amabini besokola kwimilo yabo ebhlokothayo yobomi malunga nokunyamezelana kwiintsuku ezine ngaphandle kweqabane labo elide, ndiyakonwabela ukuba kwindawo yam bonwabile ngamagumbi ahlukeneyo, izangqa ezahlukeneyo zabahlobo kunye neendawo zokuphumla ezahlukileyo.
"Ngelixa ootata bakhala emagxeni abasetyhini abancinci abangakhathalelwanga kwaye besebenza ngokufihlakeleyo okufihliweyo, oomama bafuna impilo yabo elahlekileyo. , Ingxaki ye-erotic e-Yael Ronen. "
Uluntu oluzayo lweefom zootata abatsha kunye nabangatshatanga ngenxa yokuba abafazi babo becela ukungafumani veki ngaphandle kwempelaveki nangaphandle komntwana. Ngelixa ootata bakhala egxalabeni labasetyhini abancinci abangakhathalelwanga kwaye besebenza ngokufihlakeleyo okufihlakeleyo, oomama bafuna ubomi babo obulahlekileyo. "Ingxaki ye-erotic" à la Yael Ronen.
Kwiminyaka elishumi elinesithoba, awunakuze ucinge ngokuzibuza ukuba ingaba imfihlakalo encinci kangakanani ubudlelwane inokuyiphatha konke. Kwaye ukuba lowo unqwenela, ubuze abuyi kubonakala ngokucacileyo, kodwa uya kuba nomtsalane wemfihlo kwakhona.
Photo / Ividiyo: Oscar Schmidt.
