Umahluko phakathi kweenkululeko kunye nabalondolozi

I-USA lilizwe elinomdla. Zimbini iingcinga eziphambili, inkululeko kunye nolondolozo, kodwa yintoni eyahlula kwaye kutheni uyinkululeko okanye ungumntu olondolozayo? Uya kufumanisa ukuba uqhubeka ufunda.

Inkululeko kunye nolondolozo ekuqaleni baneendlela ezahlukeneyo zokucinga. Kwingqondo yenkululeko, i-cortex yangaphakathi engaphambili ikhule kakuhle. Eli candelo lobuchopho bakho linoxanduva lokuqonda kunye nokubeka esweni ungquzulwano. Kungenxa yoko le nto abakhululekileyo benentlalontle kunolondolozo kwaye bane-amygdola enkulu kwingqondo. Ngenxa ye-amygdola, zilungelelaniswe ngakumbi kwaye zinokuqhubekeka noxinzelelo kunye noloyiko ngokukhawuleza okukhulu. Lo ngumahluko obalulekileyo ekufuneka siwazi.

Ngenxa yomahluko wobume bengqondo, la macala mabini asebenzisa ulwimi olwahluke ngokupheleleyo kunye neengxoxo. Xa uthetha nenkululeko, baya kujongana nemibono yabo yokulingana kwaye bazive bexhumene neengxoxo zakho. Umntu olondolozayo, kwelinye icala, ukhetha ngamandla ukugxila kwiinyani nakwizakhiwo. Yiya kwinqanaba nabo kwaye usebenzise ulwimi olucacileyo noluchanekileyo, kungenjalo abayi kujinga emilebeni yakho. Ke qonda ukuba uthetha nabani kwaye ulumkele amagama akho.

Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kukho izinto ezithile ezibangela ukuba abantu babe nenkululeko okanye abagcinayo. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwezi mpembelelo zivela kwimeko yomntu: usapho, umsebenzi, okanye abahlobo, kuba bakungqongile ngalo lonke ixesha, bakunceda ekuthatheni izigqibo, kwaye bahlala bekulungele. Amava akho obuntu nawo abalulekile, kuba nantoni na ohamba kuyo ubumba ingqondo yakho kwaye inegalelo kutshintsho kwindlela ocinga ngayo. Yiyo loo nto abantu bohlukile ngokuxhomekeke kwindlela abakhule ngayo.

Nokuba umntu ukhululeke ngakumbi okanye ugcina ngendlela exhomekeke kwindlela eziye zaphuhliswa ngayo iinxalenye zobuchopho babo. Oku kuphenjelelwa yindawo ekungqongileyo. Ke ngoko, abantu bacinga ngokwahlukileyo malunga nomxholo ofanayo kwaye baziqonda izinto ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.

Ndiyathemba ukuba esi sithuba sikunceda ukuba uqonde umohluko phakathi kweenkululeko kunye nabalondolozayo. Ukuba unayo nayiphi na eminye imibuzo, nceda uphawule kuyo kwaye undazise ukuba ungaphezulu kwenkululeko okanye ungumntu olondolozayo.

Nina Hartner _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _.. _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ Ezifana

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