Elizabeth Oberzaucher
Kuti isu tinotamira kune vatinodzidzisa hunhu hwakadzama hwevanhu. Mune biology, ichi chiitiko chinonzi kudzidza munharaunda. Kufananidzwa nemamwe maitiro ekudzidza umo munhu ari ari ega, kudzidza munharaunda, kana kunyange kutevedzera kudzidza, zvinounza mabhenefiti akakosha: haufanirwe kuyedza zvese iwe pachako, haufanirwe kunge uri munhu anogadzira, uye haufanirwe kuita zvese kukanganisa iwe pachako. Saka kudzidza munharaunda inzira inoshanda zvakanaka yekuwana hunyanzvi uye sarudzo sarudzo. Haasi munhu wese wevanhu anouya semuenzaniso mune ipfupi. Ndiani watinosarudza semuenzaniso wekutevedzera, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, pamamiriro edu ehupenyu. Muchikamu chekutanga chevacheche, vabereki ndivo vanopesvedzera zvakanyanya. Zviito zveavo vepedyo nesu munharaunda zvinogadzira maitiro edu maitiro kubva pakutanga kweudiki. Semuenzaniso, vabereki vasingafarire kudya miriwo ivo pachavo havazobudiriri zvakakwana pakuita kuti vana vavo vadye zvine hutano.
Asi pesvedzero yevabereki pavana vavo iri kuderera nezera: Iyo tsika yemagariro iri kuchinja zvakanyanya uye mukutungamira kwevezera. Kana, panguva yekuyaruka, inyaya yekugadzwa mukati mechitenderera munharaunda yauri kufamba, vamwe vanhu vanozova iyo yekutarisa kwedu mukukura.
mienzaniso
Webhusaiti yeBritish YouGov.co.uk yakaita ongororo yevanhu vangangosvika zviuru makumi maviri nezvishanu munyika makumi maviri nemaviri muna2015, iyo yaitarisa hunhu hwakakurumbira uye mienzaniso munyika imwe neimwe. Nzvimbo dzakanakisa dzekuisa pasi rese nemapoinzi: Angelina Jolie (25.000), Bill Gates (23), Malala Yousafzai (10,6), Hillary Clinton naBarack Obama (9,2), Mambokadzi Elisabeth II (7,1) , Xi Jinping (6,4), Michelle Obama naNarendra Modi (6,0), Celine Dion (5,3), Ophra Winfrey (4,8), Pope Francis (4,6), Julia Roberts naDalai Lama ( 4,3).
Iwe unova sei muenzaniso?
Mazuvano, vatevedzeri vanhu vanonyanya kuve vanhu vari muziso reruzhinji. Izvi zvinosvika paruzhinji zvinoumba hwaro hwakakosha hwekuita zvinobudirira semuenzaniso. Hazvina kukwana kuita zvinhu zvikuru, zvakakosha sekuzivisa vamwe nezvavo. Naizvozvo, midhiya inomiririra vanhu vanoita basa rinokosha mukugadzirwa kwevateedzeri. Vanhu avo avo vanotarisisa vanotarisirwa kuteererwa, zvisinei kuti vangape here kana kuti kwete vanokwanisa kupa maonero anokwanisa pane icho chinhu chiri pariri. Leonardo DiCaprio achangobva kuita gamba paFacebook neTV uye mune mamwe midhiya nekuti akadaidzira hunhu hwakawandisa muhurukuro yekutenda. Kwete nekuda kwehunyanzvi hwake, kana nekuda kwezviitiko zvake zvinoshamisa, asi nekuda kwekuzivikanwa kwake, akazova muenzaniso mukuchengetwa.
Chokwadi, dzimwe nguva kuoneka kunobudirira kunoita senge ndicho chega chinhu chinosarudza kusimba semutezo wemuenzaniso. Ichi chiitiko chine hukama nehumwe hunhu hwepfungwa: isu tinosarudza zvinhu zvatakajaira uye ndokuzviwana zvakawedzera kunaka. Saka isu patinozowoneka kune kumwe kukurudzira, ndipo patinochida kwazvo.
Nekudaro, kuvepo kwenhepfenyuro kunotungamira kuti vanhu vatorerwe zvakakomba semapiyona uye vatungamiriri vemafungiro, zvakapfuura miganhu yekugona kwavo kukuru. Ichi chiitiko chakadzika munhoroondo yedu yekushanduka-shanduka. Kunyangwe kudzidza mumagariro kuri mutengo unoshanda-mari wekudzidza zvinhu zvitsva, hazvifanirwe kuve zvisina kufanira zvachose. Muumambo hwemhuka, kudzidza kwemagariro kunowanzoganhurwa kutevedzera maitiro evanhu vanozivikanwa. Kunze kwenyika Conspecifics haina kuvimbika seyemhando dzemhando uye saka haina kunyanyisa kutevedzera. Kuvepo kwenhau kunogadzira pseudo-hukama nevanhu vanozivikanwa. Nyanzvi chaidzo, dzinongotaura zvadzo kana dziine chimwe chinhu chekupa pane zvemukati, dzinoshaya mukana uyu. Naizvozvo, zvinokatyamadza, isu sevatorwa tinovaona sevakaderera, kunyangwe hunyanzvi hwavo hwekuita zvinopesana.
Mukushambadza, ichi chiitiko chinoshandiswa: Nyeredzi dzinosimudzira zvigadzirwa zvemarudzi ese .. Ikozvino hazvitombobvumirwe kutarisirwa kuti vanogadzira siki vane hunyanzvi hwehunyanzvi pakokoreti, kana kuti mutambi weAmerica anoziva zvakawanda pamusoro pekofi kupfuura muAustria wepakati. Zvisineyi, makambani ari kusvika zvakadzika muhomwe yavo kubatanidza kumeso kwekuziva neyakagadzirwa chavo. Kunyangwe kana kushambadzira kuchivakira pane mafungiro eunyanzvi, hakuzviite nenzira yaungatarisira kuti zviitwe, iko iko kuri pamusoro pehunyanzvi: Panzvimbo yekurega vatambi vazhinji vachitaura, munhu anosimbiswa senge inyanzvi. Iri zano rinoda nguva yakawanda - kujairana neiyo modhi hakusati kuchifanira kuvakwa - asi kunogona kubudirira mukufamba kwenguva.
Sainzi hadpi kupa 100-inoenderana nezvirevo. Asi hapana chimwe chinhu chinofarira veruzhinji seyambiro yeakatevedzera muenzaniso.
Models inyanzvi dzekukurukurirana
Parizvino, vatevedzo ndevaya vanhu vanogona kubuditsa mameseji Zvinonyanya kukosha kuti uwane mutauro unonzwisisika. Zvekare, vanhu vanowanzove vakakwirira kune veruzhinji. Ruzivo rwepamusoro-soro rwune nyeredzi nezvezvinyorwa zvavanotaura runoita kuti zvive nyore kupeta iwo meseji yavanoda kuendesa mumashoko akareruka. Masayendisiti kunyanya anowanzove nedambudziko rakapesana: kuva neruzivo rwakadzama ruzivo runowanzoita kuti zvisaitike kuti vadzore zvirevo kune zviri nyore mameseji. Kuburitswa kwechirevo chepakati kubva kubasa resaenzi kunomiririra basa risingade zvakawanda .. MaSainzi, ayo anotarisana nezvipikisheni uye kugovera, haapi zana zana muzana zvirevo. Asi hapana chimwe chinhu chinofarira veruzhinji seyambiro yeakatevedzera muenzaniso.
Inodiwa mienzaniso
Vakakodzera mienzaniso vanhu vanosanganisa akasiyana siyana hunhu:
a) Unogona kuvimba nechinhu chakakoshwa chinokupa chimiro chehunyanzvi.
b) Ivo vane vezvenhau kuoneka kuti vape yavo yakafara kukanganiswa maitiro.
c) Ivo vanokwanisa kutaurirana mameseji kuti vanzwisiswe neruzhinji.
Sezvo ganda rakamirira mazai mukaka rinodyara neakasiyana akadai mashoma aripo, mubvunzo unomuka, kana isu tichigona kutarisira kune vesaenzi nenyanzvi, kuti vanotora semuenzaniso mhedzisiro munharaunda yedu. Zvingave zvakanyanya kubatsira kugovera mabasa acho nenzira yekuti vanhu vakanyanya kutaurirana vanodzidziswa kwazvo nehunyanzvi zvekuti vanogona kuita basa ravo nepamusoro sezvazvinogona. Kunyanya mukukurukurirana kwesainzi, kugoverwa kwemabasa pakati pevasayendisiti nevatapi venhau vesaenzi kunobuda: Masayendisiti anotarisa pakugadzira ruzivo rutsva uye kurwuzivisa munharaunda yesainzi. Bhiriji pakati pekutsvagisa uye neruzhinji iri kurohwa nevamwe: Vanyori vesainzi vane ruzivo rwakakwana kuti vanzwisise ruzivo kubva pasainzi rwunoridudzira mumutauro unonzwisisika kazhinji. Kana mumwe akabudirira kuwana kuvimba nevasiki vekuziva uye vatengi vezivo, nhanho inonyanya kukosha mukuparadzira mameseji makuru anoitwa.
Mismatch yekushanduka
Matekiniki anoshandiswa kusarudza mienzaniso uye kuongorora kuvimbika kwevamwe zvakabuda pamusoro peshanduko mumamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana zvakanyanya nenzvimbo dzazvino. Madzitateguru edu aigona kuwedzera kubudirira kwekudzidza munharaunda nekudzidza kubva kune vanozivana. Nekudaro, iwo matekinoroji emazuvano anogadzira kufungidzira-kujairana nevanhu vatisingazive chaiko. Vaya vari vangangoita vaenzi mumba medu yekutandarira vanozova mitezo mitezo yeboka redu. Ndosaka tichivatenda uye tichivasarudza sevatevedzeri. Izvi zvinotakura njodzi yekuvimba nemunhu asiri iye, nekuda kwekungoti isu tinotenda kuti tinovaziva. Chero bedzi isu tichiziva kuti uku kunzwa kwematumbu kwekuvimba hakusi chikonzero chakavimbika, tinogona kuzvidzivirira.
Mienzaniso yemienzaniso: Donha Zuckerberg
Mark Zuckerberg (facebook) akarova misoro yepakutanga gore rino nekupa zvakawanda zvezvinhu zvake. Akakurumidza kunyorwa segamba, asi pasina nguva akamutsa kukahadzika. Kuedza kwekuvandudza mufananidzo wake kuburikidza ichi chiitiko hakuna kubudirira zvachose. Pakutanga, pakanga paine kusagutsikana kuti Zuckerberg aibhadhara kubhadhara mutero kunyangwe mabhiriyoni mukutengesa. Nepo kuitirwa chaikoiko munhau yemagariro kwaive kufinha kwekufarira, maitiro ari munhau dzezvirwere akaramba achiripo. Uye chaizvo saka, sezvazvakazoitika, mipiro ndiyo nzira yakakwana yekuchengetedza mutero, kunyanya muUS. Zvakare, iyo mari haina kumbobvira yasara ichidzora humambo hweZuckerberg: iyo nheyo inoiswa pasi pemirairo yemabhirionari, uye angangoshanda mukuda kwezvinangwa zvake.
Mhosva iyi inokwenenzvera chiitiko chinokatyamadza chakanyanya: avo vanoteerera nemitemo uye vanotsigira kudyidzana munharaunda kuburikidza nemaitiro avo akajairika, semuenzaniso nekubhadhara kwavo zvipo zvekuchengetedza munharaunda nemitero, hazvizivikanwe zvachose. Kune rimwe divi, avo avo vanogoneswa nekutonga-kuputsa kuita chimwe chinhu munharaunda vanova magamba. Isu tinowanzorerutsa zvinhu zvinoenderana neyakaenzana isu tichikurira zvinhu zvisingawanzo. Semhedzisiro, isu tinongova nekuziva kana chimwe chinhu chisina kujairika chikaitika. Ndokusaka kutonga-kuwirirana maitiro hakufanirwe kutaurwa. Chete nekusimudzira kuziva kweizvo zvinokanganisa tinokwanisa kupokana nechinhu ichi.
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