Helmut Melzer
"Bitch" masiku ano ayeneranso kumvetsedwa monga chisonyezo chaubwenzi. "Sissy" sikufunikiranso kuchita naye mfumu yaku Austria, koma ndi mawu oti anthu ogonjera omwe amaphunzira kuchita "mwamwambo wamkazi pakugonana" panthawi yophunzitsira. - Intaneti ndi malo ake a zolaula zakhala zikuwona zikhalidwe zamtunduwu zogonana kwa zaka makumi ambiri - ndipo, chifukwa cha zopinga zomwe sizilipo, zakhala ndi vuto paubwana. Chikhalidwe chenicheni cha kugonana.
"Zowonjezera zimatsimikiza kufunikira: Zomwe timawona nthawi zambiri zimawumba zomwe zimatitsegulira. Choyipa chachikulu, kugonana koona sikungotembenukiranso ogula zolaula - anthu amachita mosiyana kwambiri m'moyo weniweni, kusiyana maonekedwe ndikolimba kwambiri, kununkhiza kwa anthu ndipo phokoso ndilosadziwika bwino, "atero Lena Papasabbas wa ku Zukunftsinstitut zokhudzana ndi zomwe zikuchitika pano pakugonana
Zowona ndi zolaula zakhala zikugundana kwanthawi yayitali, palibenso zoyeserera. Intaneti ikukhazikitsa njira zogonana. Amayi amakhudzidwa makamaka, omwe ayenera kusangalatsa anzawo omwe amakonda zolaula masiku ano ndi zomwe mafilimu achikulire anali ochulukirapo zaka makumi angapo zapitazo. Papasabbas: "Kukhalapo kwa nkhanza zogonana pagulu kumadalira kwambiri chikhalidwe, miyambo ndi machitidwe. Pali kulumikizana mwachindunji pakati pa zachiwawa ndi kusala nkhawa zogonana: Magulu omwe amafunitsitsa kudziyimira pawokha kwa azimayi ndi achinyamata amakhala mwamtendere kwambiri.
Ku Europe, kumbali ina, mayi aliyense wachitatu amachitidwa chiwawa pafupifupi, ndipo m'modzi mwa khumi amachitiridwa nkhanza zachiwerewere. Zina, kafukufuku wongozunzidwa mosachedwa mpaka 100 peresenti. ”Mwa njira: Lamulo lomwe lidapangitsa kuti kugwiririra chigololo likhale lovuta lidayamba kugwira ntchito mchaka cha 1997 (Germany) ndi 1998 (Austria), zaka 20 zapitazo. Zaka.
Njira Yakugonana I: Tsogolo la kugonana likuyambiranso kukhala munthu
Koma, monga a Zukunftsinstitut akuneneratu: "Kuthekera kosawerengeka komwe kumabweretsa sikuti kumango kuyesa kopitilira muyeso osiyana zamtunduwu, malingaliro ndi malingaliro. Koma koposa zonse kukayikira miyezo yogwiritsidwa ntchito. Kuganiza kwamachitidwe, kugonana ndi malingaliro okongola akukayikiridwa kwambiri komanso kukonzedwa chifukwa chogwira ntchito munthawi yazachuma. Izi zimabweretsanso kubwerera ku zofunikira: kufunikira kwa umunthu kwa kuyandikira ndi kuyanjana. "
Njira Yakugonana II: Kapena pakatikati pake?
Nthawi yomweyo, wina akhoza kutsutsana, zenizeni zenizeni zatsala pang'ono kukwaniritsidwa. Ndipo monga intaneti, izi zimabweretsa zofunikira zolaula, ngati voyeur pakati. Pakadali pano, magalasi atsopano a VR safuna zingwe zilizonse ndipo posachedwapa akukupemphani kuti mukhale ndi masiku enieni ndi anthu enieni, koma matupi a digito omwe ngakhale opaleshoni yodzikongoletsa sangachite bwinoko.
Digitization imakhudzanso kugonana.
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