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Dr. William Masters: "Pamwamba lawo linatenga miyezo yanga patatha masekondi asanu ndi anayi."
Wodandaula: "Anamunama."
WM: "Unalibe orgasm?"
P: "Kodi mukutsimikiza tsopano?"
WM: "Inde, zoona. Mukuyerekeza kuti muli ndi phokoso? Kodi ndichizolowezi pakati pa achiwerewere? "
P: "Ichi ndichizolowezi kwa anthu onse okhala ndi nkhwangwa. Amayi amanamizira orgasms, ndinganene, pafupifupi onse. "
WM: "Koma chifukwa chiyani mkazi ayenera kugona pankhani ngati imeneyi?"
Kukambitsirana uku kumayambira kuyambira kwa mndandanda wa "Amisili a Kugonana" pa asayansi awiri aku America a William Masters ndi Virginia Johnson, omwe adachita upangiri wokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa anthu mzaka za 1950 ndi 1960.
Funso loti chifukwa chiyani mkazi ayenera kugona mu "nkhaniyi" silinali lomwe lingawululidwe mu America yoyambira ya zaka za 50. Kwenikweni, kugonana ndi chinthu chomwe chidachitika kuseri kwa zitseko zotsekedwa ndipo sichinali chosangalatsa kuposa udindo wabanja. Mgwirizano wa banja, ukwati pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, nthawi zambiri unkakhala ndi ntchito yofanana ndi yomwe imapangitsa ufulu wina. Zotsatira zomwe anthu amakhala mwanjira yachifundo ziwiri zinali zotsatira zake. Ku Europe, zinthu sizinkawoneka mosiyana.
Kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena asanakwatirane sikunali kovomerezeka pagulu, koma izi zimakhudza azimayi, zikanabwera chifukwa cha zolakwika. Amunawa, komabe, adatha kuphwanya malamulowo osapatsidwa chilango, bola ngati okwatirana naye sanali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kugonana, komwe kumayenera kuphatikiza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kwa nthawi yayitali (ngakhale a Masters ndi a Johnson poyamba anali akuchokeranso ku vuto lamisala) zinali zokhazo zomwe zimangodutsa kumene.
"Zoti mayi wa orgasm safuna mwamunayo kapena ngakhale popanda iye kupweteka kwambiri, angamve, ndi chowonadi chosasangalatsa chomwe sichinatayikebe ngakhale chaphulika ngakhale kuti chimasulidwa."
Kukonda zachikazi sikunakhale ndi gawo lalikulu kwa nthawi yayitali. Sanapangire akazi, nawonso. Mkazi yekhayo amene amamverera (kapena ayenera kumva) m'chilengedwe cholamulidwa ndi amuna anali hule. Ndi iye kugonana kosiyana kumatha kuchitika, komwe sikunatengeke ndi ma taboos.
Zoti kugonana, nthawi zambiri, kunali kosangalatsa kwambiri kwa mkazi muukwati kapena mu malonda, sizinali nkhani pakati pa madokotala ndi asayansi ngakhale atayimba mtima kufunsa.
Kwa Masters adatsegulidwa poyankhulana ndi hule - adapanga maphunziro ake oyamba mu brothel - pakubvomereza kopita konko, chifukwa chake, dziko lonse latsopano.
Johnson, poyambirira mlembi wake wokhala ndi maudindo ambiri, Masters amayankha funso lachiwonetsero chabodza kwambiri: "Kubweretsa bambo mwachangu pachimake, kuti iye (mayiyo) atha kubweretsanso, zomwe akanafuna achite." Masiku ano, mwina yankho lovomerezeka, chifukwa "mabodza a orgasm" akadali gawo lofunikira kwambiri pa moyo wa kugonana kwa mkazi.
Masters ndi Johnson adaganiza kuti ngati mayi sangathe kufika pachimake chifukwa chakugonana, ndiye kuti akhoza kukhala ndi vuto logonana. Ngakhale ambiri mwa azimayiwa amatha kufikira pachimake mosavuta kudzera maliseche. Shere Hite, yemwe ndi katswiri wazokhudza kugonana, lero, akukhulupirira kuti akazi a 70 peresenti ya akazi sangathe kubwera kudzera mu kugonana komwe kungachitike. Chifukwa chake ndi lamulamuliroli.
Kuti mzimayi wa orgasm safuna mwamunayo kapena ngakhale popanda iye kuphatikiza mwamphamvu kwambiri komwe angakumane nako, ndi chowonadi chosasangalatsa, ngakhale kuti kumasulidwa pakugonana sikunatayebe pakuphulika. Mwinanso ayi. Kuyeserera kwathu komwe kumakhalapo sikuti kumangozimitsa zokha zomwe zinali zokhazikika komanso zabodza. Mofananamo nthawi yomweyo ndimaganizo achikondi, koma sizachilendo. Tiyenera kudzimasulira tokha kuchoka ku lingaliro ili.
Photo / Video: Oscar Schmidt.
