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Ukuvuleka ngokujwayelekile akuyona into abantu abayithola imnandi ngokukhethekile. Angathanda ukuzwa komunye ukuthi ufunani? Okuphambene kungcono ukufanisa isithombe osenzile kuye. Noma yini ongayichitha ayimnandi.
Isidingo sokuqondiswa ngaphandle komnyango ongemuva ngakho-ke kunenhliziyo eyodwa, yize ngasikhathi sinye umuntu esaba izimfihlo. Kungakho omunye noma lo mbhangqwana ugcizelela ukuthi ngempela bazoxoxa ngakho konke omunye nomunye. Okungenza ngiqhaqhazele kancane. Kumele ukuthi bangacabangi ngokuphelele noma bazenze banethezeke eqinisweni labo uqobo. Hhayi ngoba umuntu ngokuvamile uphutha ukuvumelana okuningi, kepha ngoba abantu abakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwezimfihlo.
Muva nje ngikhulume nengane eneminyaka eyishumi nesishiyagalolunye. Wayefuna ukungikhombisa umehluko phakathi kwami naye ngesibonelo esilula. Impela, yena nabangane bakhe babeyokwazana nqunu. Yebo, uphuma kuwo wonke amathuba. Ngisho ukulala nqunu ndawonye emibhedeni akuyona into engasho lutho, iqiniso, ubulili abunandaba. Isizukulwane sami sasizokuthola kumangalisa lokho, kodwa hhayi okwakhe.
"Iqiniso, ukulala ngocansi ngaphandle kobulili ngaphandle kwesisekelo kubangela isikhashana ukucasuka, futhi nesidingo sokwambatha abangane nezintombi nginqunu efulethini lami, kusesilinganiselwe."
Kuliqiniso, ukulala ngaphandle kobulili kungavaliwe embhedeni kubangela isikhashana ukucasulwa - okuthi mhlawumbe kuqinisekiswe kahle u-Ariadne von Schirachs thesis womphakathi wanamuhla okuthiwa yi-tabulose, okungukuthi "ongaphezulu futhi ongasebenzi" - futhi nesidingo sezintombi. nokuba nabangane nginqunu enqunu efulethini lami kunqunyelwe.
Ngithuke ngobuhlakani, kodwa njengoba uya ukhula uba izimfihlo. Nezingubo kanye nabangane. Nasezinsukwini. Abesilisa abadiliza ngentshiseko amabhulukwe abo ngemuva kwehora lengxoxo abazenzi abathandekayo. Isipiliyoni sami. Bheka, ifomathi yokuqomisana yobunqunu ye-RTL "U-Adamu Ufuna u-Eva" nayo ihlulekile kabi. Akunasizathu. Imininingwane engaka ayifuni ngisho nokuba nababukeli kanye nababukeli be-RTL futhi bayakhululeka ngempela kulokhu.
Ngicabanga ukuthi kungaphezu kwenkinga yeminyaka kunalena ekhiqizayo. Ngenkathi abesifazane abasebasha beseminyakeni engamashumi amabili besabhekene namabhulogi abo okuphila acwebezelayo ngokuthi bangabekezelela kanjani izinsuku ezine ngaphandle komlingani wabo wesikhathi eside, ngijabulela ukujabula ngezindlu ezihlukene, amaqembu ahlukile abangane kanye namaholide ahlukene endaweni yami.
“Ngenkathi obaba bakhala ngamahlombe abesifazane abasebasha abanganaki futhi besebenzisa ukwanga okungekho emthethweni, omama bafuna impilo yabo elahlekile. , I-Erotic Crisis e-Yael Ronen. "
Imiphakathi eyindida yababa abasha abangabodwa nabanesikhashana abangabodwa ngoba abesifazane babo bacela izimpelasonto zezingane ezingenazingane nezingenazo izingane. Ngenkathi obaba bakhala emahlombe abesifazane abasebasha, abanganakekeli futhi benza ukwanga okwenqatshelwe ngasese, omama bafuna impilo yabo elahlekile. "Erotic Crisis" à la Yael Ronen.
Eminyakeni eyishumi nesishiyagalolunye, awukwazi ngisho nokuzibuza uzibuza ukuthi ubuhlobo obuncane bungabhekana kanjani nakancane. Futhi ukuthi lowo ufisa, ubunqunu bebungeke buziveze ngokwako, kepha babuzoba nemfihlo yemfihlo futhi.
Photo / Video: Oscar Schmidt.
