Mira Kolenc
Makumi kana gumi nerimwe apfuura, apo Facebook yakanga ichiri mudiki uye ini ndokutora matanho angu ekutanga paInternet, ndakakurumidza kuona kuti aya masocial network anotumbuka sowa howa anogona kushandiswa zvakanyanya kudarika network Shamwari uye vaunozivana. Kushandiswa kwavo, zvisinei, kwakaperekedzwa nekubirira. Manzwiro akachinjika pakati pekugutsikana uye kusavimbika.
Panguva iyoyo, zvirinani muMunich, kwandaigara panguva iyoyo, nzvimbo yemunharaunda yainzi Lokalisten. Mufungo waive wekuti wechidiki Munich aive akapfuma ipapo uye kusiyana nenyika yeanalog, iyo inhibition yekutaura nemunhu yaive yakaderera. Miyalezo dzaingogara dzichirovera mubhokisi retsamba. Vanowanzofarira, shamwari kana zvinangwa, zvese zvinongoerekana zvaitika kuti munhu wese awane chaaitsvaga uye aisafanira kubva mumba netariro yekusangana inounza vanhu chaivo.
Ehezve, hapana mushandisi aive asingazive kuti network dzakadai zvakare yakanakisa yekutanga rubatsiro. Mashoko ekufarira haana kumbobvira ave nyore kuratidza. Achigadziriswa nekukurukurirana Sympathiefaden, yakazove musangano chaiwo.
Uye izvi zvaive nechinhu chisinga bvumike. Imwe neimwe yehunyoro hwandakasangana nahwo, yaimboti yaakasangana nemukadzi kubva internet. Ruzhinji rwekurukurirano hwaive chiratidzo chekuti kusiyana pakati yedhijitari nenyika yeanalog kwakaonekwa sekwakakura kwazvo. Anopesana naye aive mutorwa, mutorwa kure kupfuura chero munhuwo zvake waaigona. Kupatsanurana pakati penyika "chaidzo" uye "isina" nyika yaive yakapinza. Uye izvo zvisingazivikanwe kubva internet neimwe nzira zvisiri chikamu cheyakajairwa uye inofungidzira analog nyika.
Muchokwadi, kamwe chete gorofu iyi payakakundwa uye vanhu vaviri vakaungana, vava vaviri, izvi zvakaputira banga rekunyepa rakatangira kure neInternet. Kwakanzwika sei kana mhinduro kumubvunzo wekutangisa yaingova "Internet"? Kwete zvachose. Uye iyo internet yanga isiri yechokwadi here kune ma nerds asina kuwana mukana wekuwana mukadzi muhupenyu chaihwo?
Nhasi, pandinogara manheru manheru muboka rakakura neshamwari, munhu wese anotaurira zvakasarudzika nezvepamhepo yake yekufambisa paInternet. Uye kunyange naambuya vako chaivo havasisirizve vanoshamiswa neiyo sumo yekutanga nzira. Kwete zvishoma nekuti iyo yagara isiri chinhu chinoshamisa chete kuchizvarwa chidiki kwazvo, asi ese mazera mapoka anofara munyika yepamhepo kufambidzana. 30 muzana yehukama hwese huri kuitika pamusoro peInternet.
"MuBerlin, dzimwe nguva ndinombonzwa kuti kunyepedzera munzvimbo yeruzhinji kwakatombomira zvachose uye zvese zvashanduka kuita network."
MuBerlin, dzimwe nguva ndinombonzwa kuti kunyepedzera munzvimbo yeruzhinji kwaitombomira zvachose uye zvese zvashanduka kuita network. Kunyangwe iwe ukagara wega mubha se mukadzi manheru, izvi hazvionekwe sekukoka. Asi Berlin pamwe anongonzwa kutonhorera kweaya eheteronormative stereotypes uye mitezo nenzira yakatsetseka zvekuti inongodonha pasi peyangu yeparati radar. Mubvunzo une kujekeswa kwandichiri kushanda pamusoro pazvo.
Pakupedzisira, nekuunzwa kweiyo yekufambidzana app Tinder mu2012, nhanho itsva mukushanduka kwe (online) kufambidzana kwasvika. Vimbiso: kusvika pakuzivana kunyange nyore! Nheyo: kusarudza iyo yekumudzira inoratidzika. Chikonzero chikonzero chekuti Tinder chakave chinhu chepasirese.
Nekuti nenyaya yekuti mufananidzo unofunga pane wekubatana kwete izwi rakanyorwa, zvese zvipingamupinyi zvemutauro zvakabviswa, ivo vanogadzira nokudaro vakarova mutsipa wepakati. Wese wechitatu mukuru haana kuroora, musika wakakura. Mararamiro anochinjika anodawo kuti sarudzo dzese dzive dzakachengetedzeka murudo. Isu takatora nguva yakareba tungamira musimboti weiyo musika hupfumi muhupenyu hwakavanzika zvakare. Tinder inongova mugumo wekupedzisira.
Asi chero munhu anga apinda murudo rwepamhepo pane imwe nguva anoona kuti zvinounza zvishoma kugutsikana. Kutanga kwese kwese kunzwa kwakanyanya kwekukwanisa kusarudza iye waunoda kubva kubhuku rakakura, akawanda asina kubudirira mazuva akazotevera kusagadzikana uye kusaziva kwemukati.
"Zvekufambidzana zvirinani zvinoita kuti tinzwe takachengetedzwa kwechinguvana kubva kune kwavo kushomeka, zvichiita kuti chero mugumo wehukama sarudzo yemumwe nani ari nani."
Zvekufambidzana zvirimo ndezvekuwedzeredza izvo zvinoita kuti tinzwe takachengetedzwa kwechinguvana kubva kune kwavo kushomeka, zvichiita kuti chero mugumo wehukama sarudzo yemumwe nani ari nani.
Munguva pfupi yapfuura, zvakadaro, akawanda uye mamwe mavara evaimbove vashandisi veTinder anooneka, avo vanobvuma kubuda kwavo. Kufambidzana ingori tsika yakashata, yakanaka, yekuvhara maminetsi mashoma ekumirira, saka tenor. Iye munhu anoenda zvachose mune isinemunhu huwandu uye anorasikirwa nekusagadzikana kwake.
Iyo nheyo yepashure inoshungurudza: matambudziko ekutsvaga uye nekuchengetedza hukama akaramba akadaro. Mukupedzisira, iyo Internet firati ichiri kufanira kuzviratidza mune chaicho. Zvatinonyatsoda kudzidza kubata nemikana mitsva. Nekuti tinofanira kuvadzora, kwete ivo isu.
Photo / Video: Oscar Schmidt.
