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Dr. William Masters: "Peak yavo yakatora zviyero zvangu mushure memasekonzi mapfumbamwe."
Prostitute: "Akabiridzirwa."
WM: "Wakanga usina kana orgasm?"
P: "Uri serious here izvozvi?"
WM: "Ehe, chokwadi. Iwe wainyepedzera kunge uine orgasm? "Ndiwo tsika yakajairwa here pakati pepfambi?"
P: "Iyi itsika yakajairika kune vese vanhu vane cunt." Vakadzi vanonyepedzera orgasms, ndingadaro, vangadaro vese.
WM: "Asi nei mukadzi achifanira kunyepa mune nyaya yakadai?"
Iyi nhaurirano inoratidza kutanga kwehurukuro "Masters eBonde" pamasayendisiti maviri eAmerica William Masters naVirginia Johnson, uyo akapayona munda wehunhu hwepabonde hwevanhu mune ye1950 uye 1960 makore.

Mubvunzo wekuti nei mukadzi achifanira kunyepa mu "nyaya iyi" haisi imwe inogona kuburitswa pachena muAmerican makore e50. Chaizvoizvo, kuita zvepabonde chimwe chinhu chaiitika seri kwemasuo akavharwa uye kwaisanyanyo kunakidza pane basa remuchato. Maitiro emagariro, kuroora pakati pemurume nemukadzi, kazhinji kwaive nebasa realibi iro raiita kuti kumwe kusununguka kuvepo. Nzanga iyo yaigarowo yakasarudzika yagara yakapetwa kaviri yakave mhedzisiro. MuEurope, zvinhu zvaisaratidzika zvakasiyana.
Kuita zvepabonde pabonde kana kwepamberi pemuchato hakuna kugamuchirwa munharaunda, asi mutemo uyu wainyanya kubata vakadzi, ungadai wakauya nekuda kwekushata. Varume, zvisinei, vakakwanisa kutyora mitemo kazhinji vasina kurangwa, chero bedzi mumwe wavo waaibata naye aive asiri pabonde. Kuita zvepabonde, kusanganisa ungochani kwenguva yakareba kuti vauye (Masters naJohnson, zvakare, pakutanga vaiona seanopora pfungwa dambudziko), chaingova chero chinhu chisiri nyore chiitiko chekuzvara.

"Kuti mukadzi wegasher haadi murume kana kunyangwe iye asinga svike zvakanyanya orgasm anogona kuona, ichokwadi chisina kunaka chisina kurasika kunyangwe kuputika kunyangwe kusununguka kurara nevanhu."

Kuchiva kwechikadzi hakuna kuita basa rakakosha kwenguva yakareba. Yakanga isina kuitirwa vakadzi, kana. Mukadzi mumwe chete ainzwa (kana kuti aifanira kunzwa) mune ino yakasarudzika yechirume murume ndiye pfambi. Naiye humhandara hwakasiyana hwaigona kusangana, hwaive husina kupesvedzera nemabiko.
Icho chokwadi chekuti zvepabonde, kazhinji, chaive chinakidzwa chikuru kwete kumukadzi mumuchato kana mune yekutengeserana mamiriro, yakanga isiri nyaya pakati pevanachiremba nemasayendisiti anga akatsunga kubvunza.
KwaMasters akavhurwa mukukurukurirana nepfambi iyi - akaitisa zvidzidzo zvake zvekutanga mubhurugwa - pakubvuma kwekunyepedzera, saka, nyika itsva.
Johnson, pakutanga angori munyori wake aine huwandu hwakakura hwemitoro, Masters vanopindura mubvunzo weiyo fake orgasm zvine hunyanzvi: "Kuunza murume nekukurumidza padanho, kuti iye (mukadzi) akwanise zvakare, izvo zvaangade kuita." Kusvika Nhasi, pamwe ichiri mhinduro yakakodzera, nekuti iyo "orgasm nhema" ichiri chikamu chakakosha chehupenyu hwepabonde hwemukadzi.

Masters naJohnson vakafungidzira kuti kana mukadzi asingakwanise kusvika padutu kubva pakuvhunduka kwekuvatana, panogona kuve nekuita bonde. Kunyangwe vazhinji vevakadzi ava vaigona kusvika padanho ravo zvakare kuburikidza ne bonhora. Iyo bonde mudzidzisi Shere Hite, zvisinei, nhasi anotenda kuti 70 muzana yevakadzi havakwanisi kuuya kune orgasm kuburikidza neyakavanzika bonde zvepabonde. Saka ndiyo mutemo kwete iyo yakasarudzika.

Kuti mukadzi wegasher haadi murume kana kunyangwe iye asinga pfuure zvakanyanya orgasm anogona kuona, ichokwadi chisina kunaka, kunyangwe kusununguka pabonde hakuna kurasa pane kuputika. Zvimwe kunyange pane zvinopesana. Iyo inofungidzirwa yekusununguka kwazvino haisi kungozvidzora iyo yakareba-yakasimbiswa stereotypes uye zvisizvo Imwechete nguva orgasm ipfungwa dzerudo, asi haisi iyo yakajairwa. Isu tinofanirwa kupedzisira tazvisunungura kubva pane iyi pfungwa yakatarwa.

Photo / Video: Oscar Schmidt.

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