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Kana Facebook 2014 ichichinja maitiro ayo kuGermany uye nhengo dzayo dzaisakwanisa kusarudza chete pakati pechirume neechikadzi pane nyaya yechikadzi mune yavo profil, asiwo dzimwe sarudzo dze58 dzaivepo, pfungwa yekududzirwa kwakasiyana kwazvo kwechikadzi yakafambiswa mukati. maonero evazhinji. Sezvineiwo, nezvekusakosha kwebonde rekubereka uye kusununguka kwemurume wake, zvakadarika kupfuura maviri anozivikanwa mukana.

Nazvino 30 mamirioni evashandisi vanoshanda, Facebook mepu dzemagariro zvine hunhu. Uye chinhu chimwe chete chakajeka: kune vanhu vashoma vasiri vashoma vasingakwanise kuziva neiyo mbiri mbiri-gendering. Nekudaro, kusiana kwehunhu hwevanhukadzi kana, kuzviisa maererano naMagnus Hirschfeld, muongorori wezvepabonde uye akabatana naye wekutanga ungochani, iye wepakati anotarisana, haana kunyatsoenderana nehukwanisi hwe58 paFacebook. Ndosaka Facebook yakafungawo kuti ikozvino zvave kugona kusarudza pakati pemurume, mukadzi uye mushandisi-inotsanangurwa mumamiriro efaira. Iyo yekudonha-pasi menyu ndeye, nekuda kweizvozvo, ikozvino yaenda. Ikozvino kune nzvimbo yemahara - "Wedzera wako murume" - kwenguva yakatarwa yakasarudzika. Kuti kwagara kune vanhu vasingakwanise kuzviwana ivo vari mune yakasarudzika nzira mbiri, zvingaite sekushamisika kune imwe kana imwe. Zvikurukuru pamwe nekuti pakanga pasina dzimwe nzira kunze kweiyo heteronormativity uye idzi dzaisagona kuratidzwa neimwe nzira. Iyo internet yakagadzira mikana mitsva. Zvakangodaro, munzvimbo zhinji hazvisi pamutemo kuve chero chinhu kunze kwemukadzi kana murume. Hapana pakati pakati.

"Kusiyana kwehunhu hwevanhukadzi hakuna kufananidzwa kunyangwe kugona kwe58 kuFacebook."

Zvakare mune gore 2014 yakahwina iyo yakaratidzirwa naThomas Neuwirth art art Conchita Wurst, diva ine ndebvu, iyo Eurovision Song Contest. Kukunda kwaConchita, kushamisika kwangu, kwakazunungusa kwazvo hwaro hweheteronormative bipolar genital. Uye izvi nyangwe hazvo mafomu ekuita kana muitiro wekudonha ane hurefu hure uye kudhiraira kwakadai saOlivia Jones kwave kungorira kuburikidza nechitima cheterevhizheni chinotaura chiGerman zvisinei kuti ruvara rwupi. Mumwe angadai akafunga kuti kushungurudzika kwakagara kuri chikamu chehupenyu hwezuva nezuva.

Nekudaro, nekuti Conchita Wurst haadzorere humwe hunhu hwechirume neechikadzi, asi anozvisanganisa pamwe chete uye anobvumidza kuwirirana kwevanhurume nevanhukadzi, kune mamwe magumo enzvimbo yekunyaradza uye panguva imwechete iyo mitauro yasvika. Kusarongeka kwechikadzi kwakonzera kusagadzikana, kunyangwe mitauro. Iwe, iye, iyo - icho chinofanira kuva chii? "Art," akadaro Neuwirth, achitaura zvakanyatsojeka kuti kuchine nzvimbo diki yekuseka uye kutsauka munyaya yechikadzi.
Izvi zvinonzwikwawo nevanhu vakaita saLann Hornscheidt, vakazvipira kumutauro wakasarudzika. Pfungwa ya Hornscheidt inoenda zvakanyanya kupfuura kubviswa kweiyo generic masculine, iyo yakaziviswa pachena kurwisa, uye saka iri munzvimbo yakatarwa. Uye zvakare, Hornscheidt pachake haadi kutaurwa nezvake semurume kana mukadzi uye nekudaro zvinokonzeresa kuvenga kwakawanda zvekuti yakasarudzika kero yeemail yakanangana nemhando iyi yekutaurirana.

Zvichakadaro, zvinonyanya kufadza kuzvibvunza kuti nzanga ichazvigadzirisa papi mukubviswa chaiko kweaviri-murume / murume / murume. Zvirokwazvo, iyi pfungwa inorwadzisa munhu kuzivikanwa. Asi haingori chete mukana uyu wekupaza kubva mukurerutsa kuvaka kwevaviri ava mukana kwete kungobatanidza avo vakambosiyiwa kubva kwazviri, asiwo panguva imwechete mukufunga kwavo kwekusiyana kwepasi kupa mukana wekuti iwewo kodzero?
Mushure mezvose, uku kuwedzerwa kwesarudzo dzezvinoreva hazvireve kuti hapana munhu anofanira kutaura kuti iye - mudhara - chechikoro - murume kana mukadzi.

Photo / Video: Oscar Schmidt.

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