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Kodi mukudziwa zomwe zikukusangalatsani? Kalelo, nditagula mwangozi chovala changa choyambirira kuchokera pazaka za 60 ndili ndi zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi ndikuganiza zopita ndi makongoletsedwe oyenera, anthu amanditcha "Marilyn Monroe" mumsewu. Mwachidziwikire anali chinthu chokhacho chomwe chimalumikizana ndi mawonekedwe amtunduwu. Kuti iye amavala tsitsi lake loyera ndipo ine ndimayimirira pafupi ndi tsitsi langa lofiirira lachilengedwe, zikuwoneka kuti sanachite kanthu.
Zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi pambuyo pake, ngati ndizingololeza izi, ndifunsidwa ngati ndinudi bambo kapena ndinali bambo. Zingakhale kuti ndikuganiza izi, koma ndikuganiza kuti zikutiuza zina zokhudzana ndi zomwe zikuchitika mderalo lathu.
Kuyesedwa kwa kunja, monga chiwerewere, kumatsatira amayi kuyambira ali ana. Ndipo ngakhale mutakhala otetezeka kwambiri ndikukula kutali ndi mafashoni, monga ndidachitira. Sindikufuna kukana kuti anyamata samatchulidwanso maluwa okongola omwe unyamata amatha kuchita malinga ndi masitayelo, komabe atsikana amakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri. Ndipo kusakhazikika kwatsalira. Ndikuganiza, mpaka kumapeto kwa moyo wogwira ntchito.
Komabe, ndidapeza ndemanga ya a Barbara Kuchler (DIE ZEIT), omwe adangowoneka posachedwa pamikangano ya #metoo, mosakaika. Mwachidule, amalimbikitsa amayi kuti azolowere mwamunayo, kuvala zovala zopanda zovala komanso kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu osati pooneka, koma pantchito ndi maphunziro. Komanso kuthawa za chiwerewere - popanda chithumwa, ayi (ayi) - malingaliro awo.
"Amuna wovala yunifolomu ngati chisonyezo komanso chifukwa chogwira ntchito bwino ndiwofanana ndi mzimayi yemwe mphamvu zake zamaganizidwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kale ndi milomo."
Ndizosangalatsa kuti mapangidwe a ukazi akuyamba kukayikira masiku ano. Mulimonsemo, ndikofunikira kuti omwe akufuna kuti amvedwe ngati mkazi ayenera kusiya ukazi. Angela Merkel ndi chitsanzo apa chomwe chikudzipereka. Amayimira dziko, koma monga mkazi samadziwika.
Amuna auzimu ali ndi zikwatu mu gulu lathu. Mwamunayo akuwonetsa kuyambira pa 20. Zaka zana, kuti samatengera kufunikira kwakunja ndipo ali ndi zinthu zofunika kwambiri kuti achite. Pomwe mkaziyo akuchita bwino mpaka lero monga wobwerera kwamuyaya yemwe alibe chilichonse m'malingaliro koma kungomanga mawonekedwe ake okongola ndi a darzubieten. Ukatswiri wamankhwala, monga wonena zaumafashoni a Barbara Vinken, amakayikiridwa kuti ndi wopusa komanso wopanda pake.
Njira yotere yolumikizirana maliseche pogwiritsa ntchito zovala ili ngati chizolowezi chosagwirizana ndi dziko lakale. Ndipo amuna amene anali m'suti sanachite bwino padziko lapansi, sichoncho? Amuna wovala yunifolomu monga chizindikiro cha kulingalira ndi kuchita bwino ndi chobisalira mopanda malire ngati cha mzimayi yemwe amatha kugwiritsa ntchito milomo.
Kuyang'ana, kusankhana pamaziko a mawonekedwe, kwandichitikira pafupipafupi kuyambira chiyambi cha ntchito yanga yaukadaulo. Koma sindinayambe ndadzifunsapo kuti chavuta ndi chiyani ndi ine, koma chomwe chikuvuta ndi chiani m'gulu lino, kuti mtundu wa zovala umasankha kwambiri za kuyesa luso. Ndipo pali zambiri zolakwika. Tinayenera kumasula mwamunayo ku chovala chake chovala yunifomu ndikumulola kuti achite ndi "zamanyazi" zatsopano. Atha kubisala kwanthawi yayitali, akukhulupirira kuti atha kuleka chithumwa komanso kukongola. Pakadali pano, ndizowona kuti muyenera kulingalira zachikazi kuti ndi njira yopandukira ndipo musalole chilichonse kukukopani.
Photo / Video: Oscar Schmidt.
Ndikuganiza kuti zomwe sitimawona zimakopa chidwi chambiri. Kwa anthu ambiri azikhalidwe zachilendo ndizazachilendo, palibe amene amasamala ngati ziwalo zamaliseche zitha kuwoneka. Ndi momwe ziliri.
Kugwiritsa ntchito dziko lathuli, zikuwoneka bwino kuti azimayi ambiri amangoyesetsa kudzionetsera kuti ndi amuna. Kukhulupirira azimayi ambiri kuvala kalembedwe kawo. Kuti openyerera azitsirizidwa kenako nkulekana kamodzi kokha.
Ha, sizophweka. Chifukwa ngati anyezi, lotsatira limawonekera pansi pa chimodzi.
Asiyeni akazi azivala zomwe akufuna.
Kodi chifukwa ninji timafunikira kachidindo aka konse? Chifukwa chiyani magwiridwe antchito ndi maonekedwe samawerengera kuposa zauzimu zam'madera athu? Chifukwa chiyani tikuganiza kuti tiyenera kubisala kumbuyo kwa zonsezi? Nanga bwanji ngati tonse tili “amaliseche” munjira yoona - monga tili, nthawi zina osatetezeka, nthawi zina olimba, nthawi zina amisala, nthawi zina pokhapokha ... tingaonetse? Kodi zingakhale zowona zenizeni nthawi imeneyo? Kodi titha kuphunzira mosavuta kuchokera ku zokumana nazo za ena? Kodi anthu amtundu wa anthu akhoza kukulira limodzi chikondi? Kodi sikungakhalenso nkhondo, koma kukumbatirana modekha? Kodi tidamvanso kulumikizidwa ndi chilichonse panthawiyo? Komanso kapena makamaka ndi chilengedwe? ... chapakati ndi kuti, kumapeto kuli kuti?
Ndi kosavuta. Aliyense amayamba ndi iwo. Koma moyenera onse mu nthawi yomweyo. -D