Chikondi chopanda khomo - Column wolemba Mira Kolenc

Daniela Katzenberger, wodziwika komanso wotchuka polankhula pazomwe ena amati "ndizambiri kwambiri", waposachedwa adauza anthu kuti malo akewo sachepera chifukwa chosowa malo. Zomwe zidamupsetsa mtima tsopano komanso kukhala bambo wa ana oyamba. Koma banjali lidathetsa manyazi ndipo tsopano ndiwosangalala kuti palibe chomwe chatsala ndi manyazi. Apa ndipomwe chiganizo chodziwika kuchokera ku Ingeborg Bachmann chovomereza chomwe amalandila polandila mphotho ya wayilesi amachititsa khungu 1959 - "Choonadi nchomveka kwa anthu" - chimayambira gawo lina. Ndikumva kale Rainer Langhans ikuwomba m'manja!

Pomwe, Süddeutsche Zeitung adanena izi poyankhulana kwaposachedwa ndi 75 yake. Tsiku lobadwa, kuti zonse sizinali zabwino kwambiri. Zomwe zimawoneka ngati zopumira, zinali kumapeto koma zopsinjika kwambiri ndipo lero onse akukhalanso mnyumba zawo momwemakhomo otseguka. Komabe, ndikuganiza kuti mutha kupita patali ndi kukalengeza kuti "Away ndi Klotüre" kulephera.

"Tikudziwa kuti mnzake amatula zoseweretsa, koma zimapanga kusiyana ngati titazionera."

Ambiri amakonda kusokoneza kuzolowera kukhulupirirana. Ayi, sizofanana. Ndi zinsinsi zonse zazing'ono zomwe aliyense ali nazo komanso zomwe zimawululidwa pang'onopang'ono muubwenzi, chinsinsi sichiyenera kuyambika. Nenani: Tikudziwa kuti mnzake amatula zosewerera, zimangokhala zosiyana, ngati ifenso timayang'ana.

Zomwe a Langhans amati ndi zazing'ono zazing'ono, mwachitsanzo, kuti aliyense ali ndi chinsinsi chake, chomwe amafunanso kuti asunge, sizisonyezo zakukayikira. Ndani akufuna kufotokozera kuti alibe zinsinsi kuchokera kwa mnzake, sayenera kusankha njira yopita kuchimbudzi. Tikudziwa kuti mnzake ndi munthu ndipo amadziwa zambiri zokhudzana ndi machitidwe onse, makamaka popeza timawadziwa kuchokera kwa ife eni. Ayi, ubale sufunika mtundu uwu wopanda malire kuti ungayesedwe wangwiro.

Chinthu chimodzi chomwe chimandigwera ndikuti chimodzi mwazosiyana kwambiri pakati pa Germany ndi Austria ndi nkhani ya kuchimbudzi. Iwalani chilankhulo, malingaliro ndi khofi. Ayi, pafunso lakuchimbudzi, mizukwa ndi yosiyana. Ku Germany, zipinda zonse ziwiri ndizogwirizana, zopatukana kwambiri ndi nthabwala zoyanjana ndi Austria. Sindikudziwanso kuti zinatheka bwanji ku Germany kuti lingaliro ili lophatikizika, koma wina akadayenera kuyimitsa pamenepo. Osabera kopanda tanthauzo, ogwiritsa ntchito mosawaganizira komanso chifukwa choti pali matailosi muzipinda zonse sizitanthauza kuti ali palimodzi.

Chifukwa chake tikuganiza kuti bafa ndiye chipinda chosanja kwambiri m'nyumba. Ndi chipinda chogona? Kalanga, chipinda chogona chimangomveketsa makutu akunja makamaka okhala pafupi. Kugona pabedi lomwelo kumafuna kudalira, popeza munthu wagona m'njira inayake sangateteze, koma mawonekedwe amtunduwu ndi omwe munthu amakonda kugawana nawo. Kwambiri, osachepera.

Koma zomwe zimachitika m bafa, ziyeneranso kukhala m bafa. Kupatula apo, m'modzi anali pachiyambi nawonso ali ndi nkhawa yolola zabodza kuti wina ndi munthu yemwe, mosiyana ndi malamulo onse achilengedwe sanaduliridwe zidole. Chifukwa chiyani chowonadi, chomwe sichiri chinsinsi mwanjira iliyonse, sichingokhalabe mpaka masiku atatha, chomwe wina aliyense ali nacho ku Privée (inde, sizowona dzina)?

Chifukwa ndi omasuka kwambiri. Izi zili ngati zovala, zomwe zakhala zikuwoneka bwino komanso zothandiza komanso zomasuka kwazaka zambiri zapitazi. Ndipo kulumikizana wina ndi mnzake kudasinthiratu. Ndani akupita kunyumba lero kukadya chakudya chamadzulo? Wolemera? Ndithudi! Koma zopanda pake zilinso ndi mtengo wake. Maubwenzi osagwirizana amadzakoma pambuyo pake.

"Chifukwa chake, kamodzi kanthawi, chokerani mathalauza anu kapena musiyeni operekera kuchimbudzi ndikudzipatsa chinyengo kuti wina uja ndi m'modzi mwa anthu ochepa omwe malamulo a chilengedwe sachita."

Kumbukirani nyimbo ya Charles Aznavour "Mumalolera kupita!" Chifukwa chake, kamodzi kanthawi, chokerani mathalauza anu osachapira kapena kusiya owongolera m'bafa ndikupereka chinyengo kuti winayo akhoza kukhala m'modzi mwa anthu ochepa omwe malamulo a chilengedwe sachita. Kapena pang'ono pokha.

Ah, ndipo kotero musadandaule za Ms Katzenberger pakadali pano: padakali pano, asamukira m'nyumba limodzi ndi bwenzi lake komanso mwana, yemwe ali ndi zitseko zitseko. Kuzipinda zonse. Ndati inde, nthawi yachabechabe yatha.

Photo / Video: Oscar Schmidt.