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Kauka William Masters: "ʻO kā lākou kiʻekiʻe e lawe i kaʻu mau ʻana ma hope o ʻewalu mau kekona."
ʻO ka wahine hoʻokalakupua: "Ua hoʻohoka ʻia ʻo ia."
WM: "ʻAʻohe āu orgasm?"
P: "Ua palia ʻoe anei?"
WM: "ʻAe, ʻoiaʻiʻo hoʻi. Ke hoʻohuli nei ʻoe i kahi orgasm? He hana maʻamau kēia ma waena o nā wahine hoʻokamakama? "
P: "He hana maʻamau kēia no nā poʻe a pau me kahi cunt. Hāpai nā wahine i nā orgasms, e ʻōlelo wau, aneane pau.
WM: "Akā, no ke aha e moe ai ka wahine i ia mea?"
Hoʻomaopopo kēia kūkākūkā i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka hōʻike "Masters of Sex" ma nā ʻelua ʻepekema ʻAmelika ʻo William Masters a me Virginia Johnson, ka mea nāna i kau mua ma ke ʻano o ke ʻano moe kanaka i nā makahiki 1950 a me 1960.

ʻO ka nīnau no ke kumu e pono ai kahi wahine e waiho i loko o "kēia kumuhana", ʻaʻole ia he mea i hiki ke hōʻike i loko o ka ʻāina prudish o nā makahiki 50. ʻO ka kumu, ʻo ka moekolohe kahi mea i hana ma hope o nā pani paʻa a ʻaʻole i ʻoluʻolu ʻoi aku ka hana mare. ʻO ka hoʻolālā kelepona, male ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine, ua hana pinepine ʻia kekahi hana alibi i hiki ai i kekahi mau ʻokoʻa ke hiki. ʻO kahi kaiāulu e ola maoli ana i kahi pālua ʻelua o ka hopena. Ma ʻEulopa, ʻaʻole i nānā nā mea like ʻole.
ʻAʻole i maliu ʻia ka moe me ka wahine a me ka wahine ʻoi aku ka mare, akā ʻo kēia wahine i pili i ka wahine i hoʻopilikia ʻia, no ka mea he kolohe. Ua hiki nō i nā kāne ke hōʻoki i nā rula me ka hoʻopaʻi ʻole ʻia, me ka ʻole o ka wahine like ʻole. ʻO ka moekolohe Pelekane, kahi i komo ai ka male i ka wā lōʻihi e hiki mai ana (Masters a me Johnson nō hoʻi, i manaʻo mua ʻia he maʻi maʻi ʻoiaʻiʻo), ʻo ia wale kekahi mea ma waho o ka hana maʻalahi o ka hānau ʻana.

"ʻAʻole pono ka wahine no ka orgasm i ke kāne a ʻaʻole hoʻi me ia e hiki i kahi orgasm e hiki ke loaʻa, ʻo ia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole i nalo i ka wā e hoʻokuʻi nei i ka moʻo ʻana o ka moekolohe."

ʻAʻole no ka makemake nui o ka wahine wahine i ka hana nui lōʻihi. ʻAʻole ia i manaʻo i nā wahine, ʻo ia hoʻi. ʻO ka wahine wale nō i manaʻo (a i ʻole ua lagona) ma kēia ao kuʻāina ua male ʻia ka wahine. Loaʻa iā ia kahi ʻano pelekane ʻano ʻē aʻe, ka mea i emi ʻole ʻia e nā pākuʻi.
ʻO ka manaʻo o ka moekolohe, i ka hapanui o nā manaʻo, ʻaʻohe leʻaleʻa ʻaʻole he wahine no ka male mare a i ʻole i kahiʻoihana kalepa, ʻaʻole ia he hopena i waena o nā kauka a me nā meaʻepekema ʻoi paha e ake e nīnau.
No ka mea, ua wehe ʻo Masters i ka kamaʻilio ʻana me ka wahine hoʻokamakama - ua hana ʻo ia i kāna mau aʻo mua i ka brothel - ma ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo o ka orgasm hoʻohanohano, no laila, he honua hou.
ʻO Johnson, ʻo ia wale nō kāna mea kākau ʻōlelo me ka nui o nā kuleana, pane ʻo Masters i ka nīnau o ka orgasm hoʻopunipuni maoli ʻia: "E hoʻihoʻi wikiwiki i ke kanaka i ka pau aʻe, hiki iā ia (ka wahine) ke hana hou, i nā mea āna e makemake ai e hana." I kēia lā, akā paha he pane kūpono ʻole, no ka mea, ʻo ka "orgasm lie" he mea hoʻohui loa ia i ka moekolohe o ka wahine.

Ua manaʻo ʻo Masters a me Johnson inā ʻaʻole hiki i kahi wahine ke hele i kahi kikika mai nā hoʻomaka ʻana o ka moe kolohe, a laila he moe kolohe. ʻOiai hiki i ka hapa nui o kēia mau wahine i ka hōʻea hou i kā lākou climax ma o ka masturbation. ʻO ka mea e pili ana i ka wahine, ʻo Shere Hite, eia naʻe i kēia lā ke manaʻo nei ʻaʻole hiki i 70 ka nui o nā wahine i hiki ʻole ke hele i ka orgasm ma o ka moekolohe. No laila ʻo ia ka lula ma mua o ka ʻokoʻa.

ʻAʻole pono kēlā wahine no ka orgasm i ke kāne a i ʻole a ʻole o ia i kahi orgasm e hiki ke loaʻa, he ʻoiaʻiʻo maoli, ʻoiai ʻaʻole i nalowale ka hoʻokuʻu ʻia ʻana o nā moekolohe. ʻOiai paha ma ke ʻano ʻo. ʻO ka mea maʻamau o kā mākou kau nei ʻaʻole e kāpae paʻa i nā stereotypes lōʻihi a me ka manaʻo hoʻopunipuni. ʻO ka orgasm like kahi manaʻo manaʻo aloha, akā ʻaʻole ia ka mea maʻamau. Pono mākou e hoʻokuʻu iā mākou iho i kēia manaʻo paʻa.

Photo / Video: Oscar Schmidt.

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