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He ʻumi a he ʻumikūmākahi mau makahiki i hala aku nei, i ka wā i wā ʻōpiopio ʻo Facebook a ua lawe wau i kaʻu mau hana mua ma ka Pūnaewele, ʻike koke wau ua hiki i kēia mau pūnaewele pūnaewele e like me nā hua puaa hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia no ka ʻoi aku ma mua o ka ʻoihana. E na makamaka a me na makamaka. ʻO kā lākou hoʻohana, akā, ua hele pū me ka ambivalence. ʻO nā manaʻo o ka hopena ma waena o ka euphoria a me ka mikupa.
I kēlā manawa, ʻo ka liʻiliʻi ma Munich, kahi aʻu i noho ai i kēlā manawa, ua kapa ʻia ʻo ia ʻo Lokalisten ka pūnaewele kūloko. ʻO ka manaʻo ka holo nui ʻana o Munich holoʻokoʻa a i ʻole ka hoʻohālikelike i ka honua analog, ua emi loa ka pale ʻana e kamaʻilio i kekahi. Hoʻololi mau ʻia nā leka i ka leka uila. ʻO nā leʻaleʻa maʻamau, nā hoaaloha a i ʻole pahuhopu, nā manawa ākea e loaʻa i nā mea āpau āna a ke ʻimi a ʻaʻole pono e haʻalele i ka hale a manaolana no ka hopena e hoʻopuka nei nā poʻe pono.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe mea i ʻike i kēlā mau kikowaena he kōkua mua loa hoʻi he kōkua mua. ʻAʻole maʻalahi nā hōʻike e hōʻike ʻia. Hoʻokuʻu ʻia e ka kamaʻilio ʻana he Sympathiefaden, ʻo ia kahi hālāwai maoli.
A ua aneane kēia mea. ʻO kēlā me kēia mau kāne aʻu i hālāwai ʻole ai, ʻaʻole wau i haʻi aku me kekahi wahine mai ka pūnaewele. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā kūkākūkā he hōʻike i hōʻike ʻia ka nui o ke kahe a me ka honua kūlike e ʻike nui ʻia. He malihini a ka luna, a he malihini ma mua o nā malihini ʻē aʻe. Ua maʻa loa ka hoʻokaʻawale ma waena o ka "maoli" a me ka "spurious". A ʻo ka mea ʻike ʻole mai ka pūnaewele i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole ia he hapa o ka honua ākea a me ka wanana.
I ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, ke kū hoʻokahi nei kēia hōʻuluʻulu a ua hui pū kekahi mau kānaka, e lilo ana i mau lua, ʻo kēia kaakū i kākoʻaka no kahi moʻomeheu e hoʻomaka ana mai ka pūnaewele. Pehea pehea ke kani ana inā ʻo ka pane i ka nīnau hoʻopuka i maʻalahi "Pūnaewele"? ʻAʻole naʻe i ka manaʻo aloha. ʻAʻole anei he pūnaewele maoli no ka mau nerds i loaʻa ʻole ka manawa e loaʻa i kahi hoa ma ke ola maoli?
I kēia lā, ke noho wau i ke ahiahi i loko o kahi hui nui me nā hoaaloha, ʻ tellslelo aku nā mea āpau i kāna pūnaewele flirting Internet. A ʻo kou ʻūnē makuahine ponoʻi ʻole hou ke kahaha nui ʻia e nā ala hoʻoikaika mua. ʻAʻole ka mea nui no ka mea lōʻihi a ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia ka wā ʻōpiopio no ka ʻōpio o nā makahiki ʻōpio, akā ʻoliʻoli nā makahiki a pau i loko o ke ao o nā pāʻani pili pūnaewele. ʻO 30 ka pakeneka o nā pili āpau i loaʻa i ka manawa ma luna o ka Pūnaewele.
"Ma Berlin, i kekahi manawa uaʻike wau i ka puhi ʻana ma ke kikowaena ākea i hoʻopau i ka hana a ua neʻe ka mea a pau i ka pūnaewele."
I Berlin, i kekahi manawa keʻike nei wau i ka puhi ʻana ma nā wahi ākea ua pau i ka hoʻopau ʻana a ua neʻe ka mea a pau i ka pūnaewele. ʻOiai inā e noho hoʻokahi wale ana ʻoe i loko o ka pahu me kahi wahine i ke ahiahi, ʻaʻole ʻike ʻia kēia he palapala kono. Akā ua manaʻo maikaʻi loa ʻo Berlin no kēia mau heteronormative stereotypes a me flirts ma ke ʻano he mea maʻalahi loa ia e waiho wale ʻia ma lalo o kaʻu radar perceptual. ʻO kahi nīnau e hoʻomau ana koʻu mālamalama.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, me ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka app dating Tinder ma 2012, ua hōʻea i kahi pae hou ma ka hoʻokumu ʻana o ka (pūnaewele) ka pili. ʻO ka hoʻohiki: e maopopo i kekahi i kekahi ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi. Ke kānāwai: Koho no ka hoʻouluʻana i ka optical. ʻO ke kumu Crucial i lilo ai ʻo Tinder i kahi kūlana honua.
No ka mea me ka manaʻo o kahi kiʻi e pili ana i ka hoʻopili ʻana a ʻaʻole ka huaʻōlelo i kākau ʻia, ua hoʻopau ʻia nā mea āpau ʻōlelo, a laila hōʻeha nā mea hana. Ma kēlā me kēia, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā pākeke, ʻoi loa ka mākeke. Pono ke ʻano maʻalahi i nā koho i paʻa e wehe ʻia i ke aloha. Ua lōʻihi mākou i ka hana o ka loiloi o ka hoʻokele waiwai i loko o ke ola pilikino e like. ʻO Tinder ka hopena hope loa.
Akā ʻo ka mea nāna i hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka pāʻani pūnaewele ma kekahi manawa, ʻike ia he mea liʻiliʻi iki. ʻO ka manaʻo mua loa o ka hiki ke koho i ka hoa makemake i kahi kikoʻī nui, nui nā lā i hiki ʻole ma hope a laila i ka hemahema a me ka hemahema o loko.
"Kaʻohana ʻo ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā ego e hoʻolako iā mākou i ka manawa no ka manawa hoʻokahi mai kā lākou pono ʻole, e hana ana i kahi hopena no kahi pilina no ka hoa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi."
ʻO nā mea hoʻohana ʻana he mau mea eʻae nei e hoʻōla iā mākou no kahi manawa mai kā lākou ponoʻī ʻana, e hana ana i kahi hopena no kahi pilina no kahi hoa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
ʻO nā mea hou aʻe, eia naʻe, ua ʻike hou ʻia nā mea hou a nā mea hoʻohana mua Tinder, ka mea i hōʻoia i ko lākou puka ʻana. He ʻano maikaʻi wale ke kaā ʻana, maikaʻi, ke kau ʻana i kahi mau minuke ke kali ʻana, no laila ka mea. Hoʻomaka holoʻokoʻa ke kanaka i ka papale faceless a pau i kona nāwaliwali.
Ke haʻalulu nei ka ʻaoʻao haʻahaʻa: ua mau i nā pilikia o ka loaʻa a mālama i ka pilina. I ka hopena, pono kekahi e lele pūnaewele e hōʻike iā ia iho i kaʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO ka mea e pono ai mākou e aʻo, e pili ana i nā hiki hou. No ka mea, nāna mākou e hoʻomalu i ka poʻe, ʻaʻole ka poʻe iā mākou.
Photo / Video: Oscar Schmidt.
