Ubungozi bomphakathi wezindlalifa ngokombono womuntu othintekayo

Izingozi ezichazwe lapha ikakhulukazi zisekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho okuphathekayo. Kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​okuningana (isb. ukudluliswa kwedatha okungenzeka / ukunqwabelanisa) engikwenzile, ubufakazi obuphathekayo bokuthi izindlalifa ezikanye nabo abunakwenzeka neze. Phakathi kokunye, lapho ngingedwa, anginabo ubufakazi bokuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​okuphathekayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, okunye okuhlangenwe nakho okungavamile kungase kwenzeke ngengozi. Nokho-ke ezinye izimo zikhomba ukuthi lokhu akwenzekanga nje kwaqondana, kodwa yilabo ababeyizindlalifa ngemuva kwakho.

I Risks

1. Ukuthi ummeli wakho nguye odala izindleko ezinkulu, ukuthi ummeli wakho axhumane nezindlalifa ngaphandle kokukwazisa, noma azivumele ukuthi afakwe ngaphansi kwengcindezi ummeli wezindlalifa. Nokuthi ummeli wakho akakumeli ngokwanele okuthakaselayo.

Abameli cishe bahola imali encane ecaleni lokuxazululwa kwesinqumo ngaphambi kwesikhathi ngaphandle kwenkantolo, futhi iningi lapho izindlalifa ziphikisana kakhulu. Ngezimpahla zefa ezihambisanayo, imali eningi ibe isigeleza iye kummeli. Ngithole ukuxoxisana kokuqala kubameli abambalwa ukuze ngibe sengithatha isinqumo. Bengifuna ukuxoxisana nomunye wabameli odabeni oluyingxenye. Ngemva kokuba eqale wangitshela ukuthi lokhu kulula kangakanani kuye, ngabe sengicela isilinganiso sezindleko zalolu daba. Nokho, lokho kwakuyingozi enkulu kakhulu kuye futhi engenakubalwa.

2. Amandla ommeli emiphakathini yezindlalifa

Uma izindlalifa zikunikeza amandla ommeli ngamunye noma ahlangene womphakathi wezindlalifa, ukuze ukwazi ukulawula izindaba zomphakathi wezindlalifa - "njengoba uhlala eduze nasekhaya" - lokhu kuba nomphumela owakha kakhulu futhi kubonakala sengathi abantu ukukwethemba. Uma izindlalifa ezikanye nawe zikunikeza amandla ommeli "ukunakekela udaba lwabazondlalifa" cabangela:

(a) uma amandla ahlangene ommeli, amandla ommeli acindezelwa esweni lakho, kufanele uphakamise izindlebe zakho. Ngokubona kwami, uma nenza okuthile ndawonye, ​​awudingi ukugunyazwa okufanayo.

(b) ngamunye wezindlalifa ezikanye naye angakuhoxisa amandla akho okuba ngummeli nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, gcina lokho engqondweni.

(c) ngamandla ommeli ahlangene, kunobungozi bokuthi omunye wabagunyaziwe uzoveza umazisi wakhe bese omunye umuntu azenze wena. Futhi anginaso isiqiniseko sokuthi wonke umuntu - okwethulwa kuye ummeleli - ugcizelela ukuthi bobabili abameleli baziveze bona. Lokhu kuyinkinga ikakhulukazi uma amandla ommeli evumela izinkokhelo zemali (ikakhulukazi ngamanani angenamkhawulo).

3. Izikweletu Zezakhiwo/ Ukwahlukaniswa Kwezakhiwo

Ngisho noma kunempahla eyanele, abakweletwayo bangafaka isimangalo kunoma iyiphi indlalifa, ngisho nangaphambi kokuhlukaniswa kwefa. Umkhawulo wefa kungenzeka kuphela njengengxenye yenqubo. Ngakho-ke kufanele ubale nezikweletu zezindleko zokunakekelwa okusasele, izikweletu zikadokotela ozimele, kodwa nezinye izikweletu zezindleko - ezivela maqondana nefa - zigcina ngawe, futhi izindlalifa ezikanye nazo azibonisi intshisekelo kulokhu kuqedwa impahla noma isabelo ezindlekweni. Ngokuphathelene nalokhu, ukuzimisela kwakho ukusingatha udaba ngokucela kozakwabo kungenza kube lula kulabo abahlanganyela nabo - isibonelo ngokudlulisela ikheli lakho - ukwabela abakweletwayo befa. Uma kufika isixwayiso esisodwa ngemva kwesinye - ngisho nangaphambi kokwamukela ifa - lokhu kuwuphawu olucacile lwalokhu.

4. Inventory

(a) Cela abazali bakho ukuthi bakuthathele izithombe zomndeni wakho, kungaba yindlela yokugcina yokuphrinta. Ngaphandle kwalapho uzitshela ukuthi, uma izingane zakwethu zinenhliziyo embi kangako, ngingathanda ukungakhumbuli umndeni wendabuko ngalezi zithombe.

(b) Yonke into esekhaya labazali futhi okungeyona eyomunye umuntu ngokuvamile iyingxenye yefa. Ukuthatha izinto ekhaya labazali ngaphandle kwemvume ebhalwe phansi yezindlalifa ezikanye nabo kuyingozi kakhulu. Ukuhlukanisa nokuthatha i-inventory ngaphambi kokuba zonke izikweletu zezindlu zikhokhelwe nakho kuyingozi. Kungabonakala njengokuhlukaniswa kwefa. Futhi ngalokho, wonke umkweletu angasebenzisa impahla yangasese engenamkhawulo kubo bonke abandlalifa.

(c) Mayelana nalokhu, ukugunyazwa kwesakhiwo ngaphambi noma ngemva kokudayiswa noma ukuthengiswa kokudliwayo kuyindaba ebucayi kakhulu. Uma uphuma ngokwakho efulethini, izindlalifa ezikanye nawe zingakujikela intambo. 

Mhlawumbe umthengi uzokutshela - ngomnqamulajuqu oqinile - ukuthi bazophuma mahhala efulethini uma uhoxisa zonke izimangalo. Ngemva komnqamulajuqu, wayezoqasha umsizi wesikhonzi senkantolo ngemva kwamaviki ama-2.

Uzoba nenketho yokuvumelana nalokhu, noma uma ukholelwa ukuthi uhlu lwempahla ludlula inani lezindleko zokuxoshwa, vumela isikhonzi senkantolo asithathe. Uma ukukhishwa umsizi wesikhonzi senkantolo kusaqhubeka eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-3/4 kamuva, ungase ukhokhiswe sonke isikhathi njengesinxephezelo sokusetshenziswa. Futhi lokhu kungaba kubi kakhulu.

Futhi uma unebhadi, izinto ezibalulekile zizobe sezinyamalele endlini ngaleso sikhathi futhi i-inventory izobhekwa njengeyize ngumsizi wesikhonzi senkantolo. Ukuze nawe uzokhokhiswa ngokugcwele ngezindleko zemvume.

5. Ukwabelana/ukunqwabelaniswa kwedatha okungenzeka, kuhlasela indawo okuyo ukuze ikuhlukanise.

Ngisho noma ukudalulwa okungagunyaziwe kwedatha yomuntu siqu kuhlotshaniswa nezijeziso eziphezulu, lokhu akusona isiqinisekiso sokuthi lokhu ngeke kwenzeke.

Kwanele uma isisebenzi esisodwa somshwalense wezempilo noma somshwalense wempesheni sazisa izindlalifa ngekheli lakho lamanje. Futhi-ke, njengomuntu ohola impesheni, awusaphephile "ekushushisweni" yizindlalifa zakho, ngisho naphesheya. Njengomuntu ohola impesheni, uqashelwe umshwalense kwamanye amazwe aseYurophu - ngaphandle uma wake wasebenza phesheya - ngomshwalense wakho wezempilo waseJalimane noma umshwalense wezempilo wezwe lakini. Ngakho-ke, njengomuntu ohola impesheni, kufanele njalo wazise umshwalense wezempilo kanye nomshwalense wempesheni ngendawo ohlala kuyo njengamanje. Lokhu kusho ukuthi izindlalifa ezikanye nazo zinganquma indawo ohlala kuyo manje impilo yakho yonke. 

Ngeke neze ukwazi ukufakazela ukuthi abanye badlulisele idatha yakho kwabanye abazindlalifa ngaphandle kokugunyazwa. Ikakhulukazi uma ulwazi ludluliselwa ngomlomo kuphela.

Esikhathini esidlule angizange ngicabange ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi izisebenzi zamabhange, iziphathimandla, ukwesekwa kwamakhasimende, abathwali beposi noma abanikazi bezindlu badlulisele idatha kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kokugunyazwa noma bazivumele ukuba bathonywe yilaba bantu besithathu. Futhi nganginokholo olukhulu kulokho. Kusukela kwaqala ifa, lokhu kuthembana kuye kwehla kancane kancane kwazero, ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho okuthile.

6. Izinto eziyingozi eziphathelene nomphakathi onzima wezindlalifa ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​siqu kanye nokuhlola

Ngokwezibalo, u-20% wemiphakathi yezindlalifa iphikisana. Kulokhu, akufanele uthembele ngokunganaki izindlalifa zakho. Ngokubona kwami, lezi zici ezilandelayo zinethonya engcupheni yokuthi ifa lakho lizoba ne-diharmonious.

(a) Indlela abazali abakuphatha ngayo wena nezingane zakini futhi ikakhulukazi ukuthi ukuxhumana okuhle bekukhuthazwa noma cha. Ngisho noma izingane zakini zihleba ngokuziphatha kwabazali bazo, lokhu akusona isiqinisekiso sokuthi zizokwenza kangcono.

(b) uma umphakathi wezindlalifa mkhulu futhi umndeni wendabuko ubunzima, lokhu kuyaqhuma kakhulu.

(c) uma abazali bengakufihli izinto zabo zetastamente.

(d) Izindinganiso zezingane zakini kanye nendlela ezihlobana ngayo nabanye abantu zingaba inkomba yalokho okufanele ukulindele uma kuziwa endabeni yefa.

(e) Yebo, nokuthi izingane zakini zazikuphatha kanjani ngaphambi kwefa

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(g) uma abanye babandlalifa babenezikweletu noma benezikweleti kakhulu futhi ngenxa yalokho bengakwazi ukwenza impesheni efanele, lokhu kungaba inkinga efeni, ikakhulukazi uma ezinye izici zobungozi ziqala ukusebenza.

(h) uma izelamani zikubuza imibuzo mayelana nezezimali kanye nokuxhumana nomuntu siqu ngaphambi kwefa noma ngemva kokuba ifa lenzekile

(i) uma izihlobo ezingakaze zikuvakashele amashumi eminyaka ambalwa zikuvakashela futhi zikubuze ngaphambi noma ngemuva nje kokwenzeka kwefa, izinsimbi zokuhlaba umkhosi kufanele zikukhalele.

(j) Kusebenza okufanayo uma abangani bakho beshintsha futhi bakubuze futhi banikeze isipho esiphushayo sokuthi uma unokuthile ongakopisha ngakho ungakukopisha kubo. Akufanele uthembele laba bangani ngaphandle kokuqhubeka nokuxoxa. Futhi awukwazi ukuvala ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi - abangaba - izindlalifa ezikanye nawe banesandla kulokhu.

7. Ukwethembana nokuvuleleka kuzingane zakini noma izindlalifa ezikanye nabo

Ukwethembana okuyisisekelo nokuvuleleka kuyisisekelo sabo bonke ubuhlobo obuseduze, futhi ngombono wami ubudlelwano bangempela bomuntu siqu abunakwenzeka ngaphandle kwabo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwethembana nokuvuleleka okubonisiwe kungasetshenziswa kabi. Ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa emalini eningi, njengoba kunjalo ngamafa amaningi, ingozi yalokhu iphezulu kakhulu. Lapha indlela elungile phakathi kokwethembana nokuvuleleka, kanye nokuzibamba nokuqapha akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi

(a) sebenzisa ukwahlulela okuhle lapho izingane zakini zikukhuthaza ukuba wenze imisebenzi ewumthwalo womphathi osemthethweni. Ungakwazi ukusonta intambo kuyo.

(b) aqaphe kakhulu mayelana nemvume yomlomo kuphela futhi angamukeli imvume engacacile.

(c) ungafaki lutho ebusweni bakho olungalungile kuwe. Ungazivumeli ucindezelwe. Futhi ulale kuzo zonke izinqumo.

(d) Ungavumeli izingane zakini, izihlobo noma abangani bakho bakubuze ngezimo zakho zezimali, abanye othintana nabo noma ezinye izindaba eziqondene nawe, ikakhulukazi ngaphambi nje nangesikhathi sokuthola ifa. Futhi ngisho noma abangani bekunikeza, ungakopishi amadokhumenti akho kubangani bakho.

II Izincomo kwabangase babe izindlalifa

Indlela engcono kakhulu yokubhekana nalokhu iwukuba noxhumana nabo/ubudlelwano obuzinzile noma owakho umndeni lapho izindlalifa zingakwazi ukugxambukela futhi zime eduze kwakho. Kulokhu, kufanele uqaphe kakhulu kulabo abangase babe izindlalifa uma kuziwa kwabanye othintana nabo/ubungani uma kwenzeka kuba nobudlelwano/izimo ezinzima mayelana nomndeni wendabuko. Ngaphandle kwalokho, zigcinelwe kulabo abangase babe izindlalifa uma kuziwa ezindabeni zakho zomuntu siqu. Futhi cabanga ukuthi abanye abezwa ukuthi awusenalo ifa kuwe, kodwa bangaba nesithakazelo emalini yakho.

Namuhla angeke ngisamemezela ukuthi ngizimisele ukunakekela noma yiziphi izindaba zomphakathi wezindlalifa, kodwa ngizobhekisela ekuphathweni kwefa. Izindleko eziwumphumela ziphansi uma kuqhathaniswa nengxabano yofuzo. Futhi noma ngabe umlawuli wefa ekhohlakele, lokho - ngombono wami - kungaba ububi obuncane. Nokho, ukuphathwa kwefa kudinga imvume yabadla ifa kanye nabo.

III Isincomo sabenza isivumelwano

uma ungafuni ukuthi izingane/izindlalifa zakho zihlukanise zodwa ngemva kokushona kwakho, hlela izindaba zakho ngendlela enciphisa leyo ngozi.

1. Beka incwadi yakho yefa enkantolo ye-probate, futhi mhlawumbe unikeze ikhophi kuzo zonke izingane/izindlalifa zakho. Lokhu kudala ukukhanya okukhulu futhi kuvimbela intando ukuthi ingatholakali noma itholakale kamuva.

2. Qiniseka ukuthi akekho ezinganeni/izindlalifa zakho okufanele zikhokhele noma yiziphi izikweletu ezisalele zefa noma ezinye izindleko ezihlobene nefa ngokwazo ngaphandle kokukwazi ukufinyelela kuleyo ndawo.

3. Qiniseka ukuthi akekho ezinganeni zakho okufanele azithwalele mathupha izindleko zokuhlanza indlu yakho.

4. Okufanayo kuyasebenza nasezindlekweni zomngcwabo.

5. kube obala ngangokunokwenzeka kuzo zonke izindlalifa kulezi zindaba.