UKarin Bornett
'Ukomelela' kusemilebeni yomntu wonke. Nokuba kumayeza, ishishini okanye ukukhuselwa kwendalo, igama lihlala lisetyenziswa kakhulu njengegama lokuqina. Kwinzululwazi yezinto eziphathekayo, izinto ziyakwazi ukuqina, ezibuyela kwimeko yazo yangaphambili nasemva koxinzelelo olukhulu, njengerabha.
Kwi Universität für Bodenkultur Wien Ukomelela kuchazwa “njengokukwazi kwenkqubo ukugcina imisebenzi yayo esisiseko xa ijamelene neentlekele okanye ukothuka.” UCorina Wustmann, uNjingalwazi weMfundo yeNgqondo yeNgqondo kwiPh Zurich, uthi: “Igama elithi ukomelela lithatyathwe kwigama lesiNgesi elithi ‘resilience’. ’ (Ukomelela, ukomelela, ukunwebeka) yaye ngokubanzi ichaza amandla omntu okanye inkqubo yentlalontle yokuhlangabezana ngokuphumelelayo neemeko zokuphila ezixinezelekileyo nemiphumo emibi yoxinezeleko.”*
Ukomelela komatshini wemali
Phakathi kwezinye izinto, le ngcamango iqulethe ukuqiniseka ukuba ukomelela kwangaphakathi nokomelela kunokuqeqeshwa okanye kufundwe. Abaqeqeshi, abacebisi kunye nabasebenzisana nabo bebengekudalanga beze neendibano zocweyo ezikhethekileyo kunye nezifundo zoqeqesho zabantu kunye neenkampani zabucala. Iingcali zengqondo uSarah Forbes ovela kwiYunivesithi yaseWaterloo kunye noDeniz Fikretoglu ovela kwiZiko loPhando laseToronto bavavanya izifundo zenzululwazi ze-92 ezichaza uqeqesho lokuzinza. Isiphumo sisothusa: uninzi lwezi khosi zoqeqesho bezingasekelwanga kwiikhonsepthi zokomelela kwezenzululwazi, kodwa ziqhubekile kakhulu okanye ngaphantsi ngaphandle kwesiseko sethiyori. Uhlalutyo lukwafumanise ukuba akukho mahluko kumxholo phakathi kwezifundo zoqeqesho ezikhoyo, ezifana noqeqesho lokulwa noxinzelelo, kunye nezifundo ezininzi ezisanda kuphuhliswa zokomelela.
Imbono ephosakeleyo enkulu kwisayensi edumileyo kukuba ukomelela luphawu lobuntu anokuthi wonke umntu afumane umntu ngamnye. Nabani na ongakwaziyo ukunyamezela uxinzelelo emsebenzini okanye agule xa ecinezelekile lityala lakhe. UMarion Sonnenmoser ubhala athi: “Le mbono ikhokelela ekuzithembeni ngokugqith’ emgceni kwaye iyayigatya into yokuba kukho iimeko umntu angakwaziyo ukumelana nazo kwaye ukomelela akusoloko kusenzeka kumntu wonke,” ubhala watsho uMarion Sonnenmoser kwiDeutsches Ärzteblatt. Ngapha koko, ukomelela kwabantu kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi ezingenako ukuphenjelelwa ngumntu ngamnye. Imeko-bume yentlalo, iintlekele ezinamava kunye nomonzakalo okanye ukhuseleko lwemali zezinye zazo.
Kulo mongo, uWerner Stangl ulumkisa kwi-'Encyclopedia ye-Intanethi ye-Psychology kunye neMfundo 'ngokuchasene "nengqondo yeengxaki zentlalo", kuba "endaweni yokukhuthaza isenzo esihlangeneyo, abantu benziwa ukuba bakholelwe ukuba yonke into inokuba ngcono ukuba bebenokuqina ngakumbi. ngokwabo."
Kwezonyango, ukomelela kubonisa iindlela zonyango ezinokwenzeka naphezu kwako konke ukugxekwa. Ngo-2018, uFrancesca Färber kunye noJenny Rosendahl kwiSibhedlele seDyunivesithi i-Jena bafumana kuphononongo olukhulu lwe-meta: "Okomelela ukomelela kwizigulo zomzimba, ukuncipha kweempawu zoxinzelelo lwengqondo umntu ochaphazelekayo azibonakalisayo." Ngolu lwazi, izigulana ezinokuchaphazeleka ziyakwazi banikwe inkxaso yengqondo nentlalontle ekujoliswe kuyo kwangethuba xa bebonelela ngenkxaso. Kwi-ikholoji, iikhonsepthi zokomelela zidlala indima, umzekelo ngokunxulumene neentlobo-ntlobo zezinto eziphilayo kunye nokutshintsha kwemozulu. Umzekelo, kwenziwa umsebenzi wokufuya izityalo ezikwaziyo ukunyamezela kunye nezo zikwaziyo ukunyamezela Inkqubo yendalo enworfen.
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