Mira Kolenc
Radical openness is not something that people find particularly pleasant. Would he rather like to hear from the other what he wants? The opposite is best to match the image that you have made of him. Everything that could destroy it is unpleasant.
The demand for directness without a back door is therefore rather half-hearted, although at the same time one is afraid of secrets. Which is why one or the other couple emphasizes that they really would discuss everything with each other. Which makes me shiver a little. They must either be completely unimaginative or have made themselves comfortable in their very own truth. Not because one generally mistrusts too much harmony, but because people cannot live without secrets.
Recently I talked to a nineteen-year-old. He wanted to show me the generational differences between me and him by means of a simple example. Of course, he and his friends would know each other naked. Yes, you should go out at every opportunity. Even naked sleeping together in beds is nothing unusual, of course, sex does not matter. My generation would find that strange, but not his.
"True, undressed sexless lying in bed triggers a moment of irritation, and also the need to hug friends and girlfriends naked through my apartment, is still limited."
True, undressed sexless lying in bed triggers a moment of irritation - which here perhaps very well confirmed Ariadne von Schirach's thesis of today's supposedly tabulose society, that is namely "oversexed and underfucked" - and also the need to girlfriends and having friends hop naked through my apartment is limited.
Scold me prudishly, but as you get older you're more into secrets. And on clothes with friends. And at Dates. Men who enthusiastically tear down their pants after an hour of conversation do not make themselves very interesting. My experience. Look, the nude dating format of RTL "Adam looking for Eve" has also failed miserably. Not without reason. So much information do not even want to have the RTL viewers and viewers and are really pain-relieved in this regard.
I think it's more of an age question than a generational one. While young women in their early twenties are still grappling with their glossy lifestyle blogs about how to endure four days without their longtime partner, I enjoy being glad in my surroundings about separate apartments, separate groups of friends and separate holidays.
"While the fathers are crying out on the shoulders of young uncaring women and working out a secretly forbidden kiss, the mothers are looking for the lost life of their own. , Erotic Crisis à la Yael Ronen. "
Fate communities of fresh and temporarily single fathers form because their women request man-free and child-free weekends. While the fathers cry out at the shoulders of young, carefree women and work out a secretly forbidden kiss, the mothers look for the lost life of their own. "Erotic Crisis" à la Yael Ronen.
At the age of nineteen, you can not even imagine asking yourself how little mystery a relationship actually can tolerate at all. And that one wishes, nudity would be less self-evident, but would have the charm of the secret again.
Photo / Video: Oskar Schmidt.
